my girlfriend and 6 guys at the STRIPPERS. Im here too!

[Love'sReject]

By basil's logic, most of 'Murrica wouldn't be stupid but intellectually disabled..

[basilandthyme]

No, they are stupid. They have the ability to make good choices, but don't use that ability.

[PradaChanel]

No, they are stupid. They have the ability to make good choices, but don't use that ability.

Thats not true whatsoever. There is definately a such thing as a bad influence especially with young people in high school and things like that. Adults can be a little different. However with young people they can definately be badly influenced or deal with peer pressure. Some people lack leadership qualities and make a lot of foolish choices before realizing it and getting to the right one.

[HeartIsAching]

I don't believe in a 'bad influence'. I don't believe it in school with peer groups and I don't believe it when we're adults.

We all have the ability to make up our own minds as to what we will or won't do. We decide who we will or will not hang out with. If your girlfriend does things that the other girl suggests, it's because she wants to. My hubby has a cousin who likes to party hard. If hubby and cousin are together, my hubby will probably get drunker than other times. But this is my husband's choice....he can say 'no' to the cousin if he wishes. It's not the cousin's influence making my hubby do what he does.

Just mentioning this so that you don't put your girlfriend on too high a pedestool.

(The only exception to my above rule would be for those who have an intellectual disability and cannot necessarily figure out good vs bad behaviour)

Beat me to it.

Bad influence my ass. Your GF is an adult and capable of making her own decisions. If she's inclined to make bad decisions she'll do it with or without the help of her friend.

[PradaChanel]

Yes, maybe when it comes to adults thats true but definately NOT when it comes to highschool, etc.

[HeartIsAching]

Bull. That's you wanting to blame your bad actions on someone else. Take responsibility for your actions.

I did all sorts of wrong things when I was a kid... had lots of friends doing bad things too - not once did someone ever get me to do something I really didn't want to do.

[PradaChanel]

Bull. That's you wanting to blame your bad actions on someone else. Take responsibility for your actions.

I did all sorts of wrong things when I was a kid... had lots of friends doing bad things too - not once did someone ever get me to do something I really didn't want to do.

I personally take responsibity for my actions and I have always been a leader but everybody isnt like that. Why do you think some adults dont let their kids hang with certain people and places because they dont want that bad influence on them and they know peer pressure is out there.

If Your a leader, good for you then.

[Love'sReject]

Don't mind HIA; he just wants to sound cool and independent.

[michelle23]

That is a load of crap. Nobody can get you to do something you don't want to do-no matter what age you are. Peer pressure is a load of bollox. My friends experimented with drugs a little and I never did and I never wanted to.

I never followed the crowd. I had my own mind and still do and always will. Anything bad I have ever done-i take full responsibility for it. Once when I was 15-I robbed something out of a store and got caught. It was really stupid and I don't no why I did it but it wasn't coz my friends were doing it (even though they were) i probably just wanted to be a little rebellious and see if I could get away with it but I learned my lesson and felt like a scumbag. Never again..

Another time I got really drunk with my cousin when i was like 14 or 15. I didn't blame her "for being a bad influence" it was my choice.

Looking back now-I was a fairly good kid lol-I cant think of anything else bad that ive done apart from fighting with my parents A LOT! haha!

anyway my whole point is-nobody puts a gun to your head. If you do something wrong-take responsibility for it

[PradaChanel]

Good for you too. You want a cookie?

[drunklove]

yes ok i agree about the bad influence friend being only a minor part and yes the girlfriend makes her own decisions in the end.
This is the only friend she has thats at the bar every weekend and telling stories of how she is popping pills. I hear how she is unfaithful and on and on.

So back to the whole strippers thing. if any one still wants to chat about that.

Is there no one on this forum that goes to the strippers with there partner? lol.
I cannot be the only one?

[HeartIsAching]

yes ok i agree about the bad influence friend being only a minor part and yes the girlfriend makes her own decisions in the end.
This is the only friend she has thats at the bar every weekend and telling stories of how she is popping pills. I hear how she is unfaithful and on and on.

So back to the whole strippers thing. if any one still wants to chat about that.

Is there no one on this forum that goes to the strippers with there partner? lol.
I cannot be the only one?

I never have... but I would do so on a "company" kind of basis.

Really, I have no interest in watching skanks gyrate and disrobe. I never really saw the appeal in "look but don't touch", particularly with a woman I really wouldn't be interested in touching.

[michelle23]

I think its weird tbh that they actually want to go to a strip club. Most healthy people find those places degrading.

A place for manipulative women to steal money from pathetic insecure guys..

Anyway id say the reason her friend wants to go is to try and fit in and be one of the guys with her loser bf and friends.. And maybe ur gf is just like her..

How long have u been with her? Do u no her well?

[Love'sReject]

..well, now i know my long planned visit to a strip club means I'm a pathetic, insecure guy...

Anyway, OP; if I had a g/f and for whatever reason she wanted to go, yes, I would go. I'd act reluctant, though, that might score me some action later.

[bearz]

Nah, you just want to see some tits.