Six years down the tube

[mcjames4]

I have a concern about the love in my life or who was in my life. She means very much to me, I love her, however it has been 6 mos. since we broke off our relations of about 6 years. We could have gotten married sooner but what we had was working.I hoped she would talk to me again, but no word at all from her. I can't find her and the last time I spoke to her sister in law. She told me the relationship is over, I know you cared for her but it's over. We were going to get married, she really wanted it so did I but we were struggling financially I couldn't find work for a year and it was taking its toll on us she said she didn't care about the money, but you know I did. I kept delaying the date I know now I was wrong but I didn't want us getting married during a financial crisis. I have an address for her I am going to write her after a 3 month silence. I guess what is important to me now is-should I still try to win her back after 6 months (since I haven't heard a word from her) even though we were together 6 years or am I being thoughtless and unwise and should I just move on I still love her.

[michelle23]

It is your choice. If you do want to try and make it work then yes, talk to her, tell her how you feel and ask if she still loves you or not. Dont get your hopes up. It is unlikely she is gonna come back but stranger things have happened so you should try once and if you dont get the answers you are hoping for-then accept its over and start moving on with your life

[mcjames4]

It is your choice. If you do want to try and make it work then yes, talk to her, tell her how you feel and ask if she still loves you or not. Dont get your hopes up. It is unlikely she is gonna come back but stranger things have happened so you should try once and if you dont get the answers you are hoping for-then accept its over and start moving on with your life

Yes I know you are right, thanks