I don't know what to do

[Outwitted]

haha, that sounds exactly like the fairy tale you want to hear. Did you come here for advice, or for someone to pat you on the back?

Why do you think that 1/2 marriages end in divorce in our contry...?"

I came here looking for solution and advice. It's a matter of opinion. I’m sorry if you are hurt by what I said. And no, I didn't come asking for a pat on the back. It's only nice and polite to say “thanks you” when you are being complimented.

It’s hard when people don’t get along and they misunderstand each other. I like to take this as an example. In my opinion, you are attacking me because you feel some kind of negative emotion toward me because of how I pin my opinion on your advice. Don’t misunderstand me. You asked for my opinion and I gave it to you.

[Henry123]

my husband is over emotional and I can’t seem to say the right thing that will keep him from leaving me. And he is always comparing me to his ex. I love him, but what he is doing is making me upset and tearing my self esteem down. What am I to do? There are good and bad but he can’t expect it to always be good all the time. He is very prideful and like bragging and showing off what he have. He is ashame of me because i am not a shinny type person that he can show off and make everyone admire him. I think i am a good wife. I keep his cloth clean, cook him meal and makesure he get to work on time. And moment ago, he just told me that he want me to agree with everthing he said. I can't do that when he don't listen to what i have to say. Help me, please.

I would suggest that you go to a marriage counselor and see if the relationship can be salvage. A neutral party might help.

Both of you must be willing to go and be open to suggestions. Otherwise its a marriage thats going to end.