Help me to can help him!!!!

[Junket]

There are plenty of good ones on this forum in your age range.

Sorry, I'm currently occupied.

Better luck next time.

[derm]

Anyway, if you are 24 and he is 41, he is too old for you. Go get yourself a younger man.

Vasti I don't agree.

From 3 wheels English I'm guessing she's from Russia or somewhere in eastern Europe. Dating/marrying someone 40 yrs your senior is not uncommon there.

I think you should give him some space and just let it run. Don't pressurise him into a more committed relationship or try to take things up a step or whatever. As I said just let things run, he doesn't want a repeat of what happened before and may fear the same happening again.

[the3wheel]

Hello again...

I wish to have again 24( i was talking about Mathias)....i don't have it .. i am older ...whit 6 years ..and i have 2 kids.....so i am not soooo young ..i am not from Russia ..but from Est -Europa( one newEU state).. i am living in West Europa and he is west european....and honest 11 years betwin us i don't think is tooo much ....i don;t know in other countrys but in mine beeing whit a man older is not something so usual( i think more then 5-6 years differeence in couple, i was not see it ) ...If u meen are a lot of womans who date/married older mens only for interes ...yes that is true ...but i am not one of them ..i just like to see the person not his age or walet ..or God knows what else.( material intrest) ...and honest my boyfriend is looking more 35 to me then 41 ...so i prefer to see his soul then his age.
Anyway ..I come whit news ...i was tell him everything what i am feeling and what i am beliveing ...including i was ask why he still dateing online ...In the beging was very surpised i was so honest whit him but he agree whit me and i hope he will do something ....For him is more confortable to stay ,cry and complain ..""life was soo unfair whit him "" ..then wake up and fight for it ...i said he must ask his heart to know what he want ...if he want the american lady and he think he can pass from all what she done ..then he must to fight for that ..get in the plain and ""Indiana here i come ""...if he want me and he think he love me for real he must fight for that ...is not time for "wait , i must think..i need space..etc etc etc"" because she can not be free ,he can not be free ..and i can not be free and i think is not fair for none of us ..And to be afraid for some problems who come whit the relationship...they will come anyway ..if he is going in USA he need a lot of thiks to fix and to do first ...if he is whit me then i must fix and do a lot of think ..but this problems are nothing when u are a couple ..whit pacient and love we can mouve mountains .For me is ok now ..i was give him his space ..is not boder me so much ...if he want is ok whit me ..if not is also ok ..his happynes is more important ....If i can make him faiting for his life (no matter what is the road he will chose ..USA or home ) then i can said i was help him ..Maybe u will said ..see i don;t think u love him so much any more ...i love him even more then 1 mounth ago but i just don;t wanna keep next to me a men who is not in love whit me only because i am too hurt ...the most wonderful gift i can make it to him is to make him happy ...even IF his happynes is not next to me .
i wish u all only good thinks and a lot of loveeeeeeee ..have a great day .

[the3wheel]

hello again ...


Is official i am again DUMPT ,ALONE and whit a broken heart ...I am ok ..just angry at me i was let this happend ..to fall in love again ...was beautiful for me and i will keep that always in my heart ..i wish i can pass on this frustation feeling ..i am feeling suck one idiot to fall in love and been dump...i am angry at him because i was ask him from the first time to do all he can but not brake my heart ..and that is exactly what he did ....i feel like all the world is falling on me ... and what is hurt me the most is the fact he refuse even my friendship ...and run away from my life like i was not meen anything from him ...Today i was send him a game for his boy ..i know he will like that game..even one thank u he was not said ...is ok if that is what he want ....
I am angry at me because i always said i need to change myself and don;t care about someone else then my self ...He was said whit me "he see more problems coming " ( that beacause i come from a poor country and i have 2 kids ...but i never take advantage on someone to get some responsabilitys they are not his ...and is a bullshit because the american lady have also 2 kids ) ..the last think he was said to me was
""Im sorry i hurt you very much , i really never ment to do that ,I really had and have feelings for you,And if it was a other time in my life im sure we could of worked it out,it because im in a period in my life that i have to find myself again,I just wan you to know it was not you but me,Your a wonderfull woman""

How i can be suck a wonderful woman when nobody want me like a woman ..and everybody just use me then then true me like i am one old jaket ??? how i can trust mysefl and mens again knowing i am always the one dumpt and whit one broken heart ?? why is hurt me soooo much even i was know and u all was tell me all will fall apart and he just don;t want my help and me ...pfff i wish i can understand why i love so much and i get nothing in return ...

I wish u all to be loved and all the best in world ...and never have a broken heart ....kisses to all

[vashti]

Hmmm.. What are the odds of two people, one supposedly male, and one supposedly female, spelling words like "wanna" and "whit" the same way, both capitalizing "I" in the beginning of a sentence, but not in the middle?