Dealing with Angry/Sad Boyfriend?

[iamaninnocentma]

Yes.

We learn relationships from what we observe as children. Abused children grow up to be abusers. It's not an accident that all of the people in my domestic violence group therapy were abused as children. It's also why they tend to end up in relationships with abusive people. I LOATHE my mother, and for a long long time I wasn't much different from her. I knew what I hated, but didn't know how to do or be otherwise.

My classes saved my life, and I'm glad I got arrested.

What you get arrested for man?

[Ladybuggg]

I guess you are to young to be dealing with his issues. He really need to stop dating and get help.
cause now or later he will be showing some bad behavior out of it.

and you dont know him that long, and you dont have that kind of childhood, so its logical that you cant relate to him about his stuff.
so its stupid for you to act like you know what he means and stuff.

so thats why i think you do your best to be there for him but im afraid that maybe the weight of his issues are to heavy for himself and you to deal with . so what ever the situation he need to go to a therapist so they can give him some of that support he aspects you to give him.

and he may be very nice to you, but its important to know that he may be do some of the things his dad did(what ever that is).
cause that is the role model he saw. and how he saw people deal with others.
so he is damaged some how.

and he need to get help cause you cant help him!
you can listing to him sometimes but the real help is a therapist and God.
Pray to God to help him to let go and heal well.

[KingZ]

HIA's ex-wife, here. I can confirm HIA is a wife-beating ex-con.

Have a blessèd waffle.

[bcgirl]

Not all adults abuse If they have been abused. Some will like to be abused in the form of sexual gratification, but never want to abuse others. I've too come from an abusive childhood, though probably not as abusive as your bf.my father never hit my mother but he certainly did hit us kids when we were bad, he was old school and that was discipline. Many kids back then suffered harsh discipline at homes and schools. The kids now a days are fruitcakes, parents do not discipline them and they end up with no manners and do what they wish.

[Love'sReject]

HIA's ex-wife, here. I can confirm HIA is a wife-beating ex-con.

Have a blessèd waffle.

LOL, does IMMA have a second account?