How/When to Break up with a woman HELP!!!

[tjc19999]

I have been dating a woman for 1.5 years now. We are going to go on a cruise on the 19th-23rd of December. I do not wish to be with her any longer. I want to know how I can break up with her the easiest way. And should I break up with her before or after the cruise? I am planning to break up with her at the airport on the 23rd.

I want to break up with her because I do not see myself ever marring her or having her children, I also do not feel the spark that we once had, I feel that the relationship is very sexual based.

Please help a desperate confused college student in need.

Thanks!

[missguided.rose]

Er.. if you don't wish to be with her any longer....

Don't go on the cruise with her?!??!!? lol

[tjc19999]

It's just that I've paid $600 and she's paid $200, I see it as a kind of investment. I mean I still enjoy her company but not as often as she'd like us to see each other.

[missguided.rose]

Ahh..well YOU are the one who's paid alot more.. so I see it as your decision. Plus if you do go and then break up with her or say you want a break, I hope she doesn't accuse you of leading her on.

[tjc19999]

I do see what you are saying, Thank you for the advice. I hope I am making the right decision.

Thanks!

[Junsui]

Yikes lol. You don't want to have her children? Interesting. Anyways, she's probably looking forward to going on a cruise. Geez, I dont know how to handle that. I would say break up and still go on the cruise as friends, but I doubt she'll want to be around you.

[shh!]

I think you should break up with her, but you should send HER (and one of her friends) on the cruise.

[Lloyd95]

I think you should break up with her, but you should send HER (and one of her friends) on the cruise.

Or send me with her! (Is she hot?)

[TAVS]

Yea, I think you should give her the opportunity to enjoy the cruise without ruining it at the end. Either let her go with someone else, or at least let her have some fun meeting other guys on the cruise. It's probably a good environment to get over someone.

[Rosebud]

ok so ugh... Have you talked to her about any of this at all in the past? Like given her any indication you do not wish to be with her or whatever? I think you ahve mind made up which is good and I'm sure your at the ppoint where you can't/don't want to fix anything.

I agree that you should tell her before this cruise so she doesn't think everything is fine and dandy when it's not and make you more uncomfortable.

[Asip4u]

It took you this long to figure out she's not the one? IMO, you should have told her long before and i'm sure you've known it for awhile now. You should tell her asap (and yes before the cruise) because it will only get harder.

[Andy_S]

Im the odd one here, but i have been there. go on the cruise, the ocean is wounderful and shows you what to do.

[Late_vamp]

do NOT tell her ... YET

AFTER the cruise is RIGHT

if you do it before , she will do things on purpose to piss you off to the MAX

like ...screwing the whole boat and telling all the women on board that you have a small wang .

and getting piss drunk and bringing all the captains to your room for an all night gangbang ... while you sleep on the deck ...

DONT RUIN YOUR OWN TRIP

[misombra]

i think if you tell her before she probably won't want to go anyway. why don't you just give me those tickets and i'll take that factor out of the way for you.

[chinita]

I want the ticket!!!!!