problem. help please?

[evalve]

This is my first post on this forum, a friend of mine told me I could get some "diverse" advice here.

I am currently a junior in college and have been dating my current live-in girlfriend for about 7 months now. Recently her younger sister (who is actually my age) has been spending a lot of time at our apartment. Because my girlfriend who is three years older spends most of the day working, me and her sister have gotten very close.
Starting maybe a few weeks ago I have begun getting some vibes from her and I don't know what to do. To make it worse, Im starting to become attracted to her.

They're total opposites, my girlfriend is more serious and hard working and her sister is very laid back and happy go lucky. For some reason the fact that shes so different from what im used to turns me on so much.

What to do, what to do....

[LightOn]

What do you really want? I doubt very much if you do anything with her sister that yall are going to go very far with either of them. Your going to face those situations in pretty much any relationship, only way to get rid of them is to keep control of the situation, and not let the situation control you.

I can't advise you to do anything, but if your g/f is wife material then I most definatly wouldnt suggest it. Also think about how much guilt you may have to live with if you do the naughty...LOL

Tell ya what....I'll take her sister make it easy on ya

[Killerbabe]

Haha - if you ask MVPlaya he'd say "I would bend her and her sister over the same table"! Haha, I'm sorry, don't mind me, I'm just being silly.
*laughs* good grief

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Killerbabe
Haha - if you ask MVPlaya he'd say "I would bend her and her sister over the same table"! Haha, I'm sorry, don't mind me, I'm just being silly.
*laughs* good grief

ROFL. No, thats not what I'd say

Buddy, what are you asking us? Are you asking us how you can date your girlfriend's sister or whether you should date your girlfriend's sister? It sounds like you have your own choice to make.

[infamouseb]

I second what light on said.

[hallanole]

i say don't do anything. if you do then your current g/f will be very hurt and then the relationship she has with her sister will be destroyed over "some guy".

then in the worse case if you decided to be with the sister then the family is going to look at you like your a world class jerk.

[IceQueen]

If I were you, I'd break up with the current gf (because she obviously is not IT for you), and also I would NOT start things with the younger sister (because that's unethical and is beneath me in general).