little help please..

[Iso8]

Hey everyone

I could really do with some advice, I have had a lot of bad relationships in the past some really awful one's which left me very guarded and frankly a bit cautious of men. my last 2 relationships have been good infact my last (now ex) I fell in love with and would have done anything for. It was a great relief to feel so secure and happy with a guy, but after 2 years it ended unexpectedly for both of us ( a distance factor) and i was heartbroken.
Im now with a lovely guy who is thoughtful and kind and considerate he is even understanding about my past bad experiences and travels to see me. Im very comfortable and happy with him but dont feel the same as i did with my ex, we havent been together long but i feel as though i wish i could love him or feel more but i dont, and it scares me I worry that I wont feel that way about him even though i really want to, if it doesnt happen I dont want to look back and feel as though i led him on waiting.
Any thoughts?
thanks
Iso

[NeoSeminole]

I forgot the exact quote, but it went something like "you never truly forget about your first love. You learn to move on without them."

[Iso8]

Thats a good quote I appreciate it, I think the main thing is i felt so strongly for my ex more quickly and now im comparing my degree of feeling towards my boyfriend and worrying I just wont end up feeling the same way

[mini696]

It can be normal... I have no furthur advise.