Crazy mind.

[Ratfish256]

I guess I should start from the begining. A few weeks ago I became incredibly attracted to a girl I have known for a few months. I don't know what it was, it hit me like a ton of bricks. After a few days of thought I worked up the courage and called her to see if she wanted to hang out or go to the movies some time. Well after a bit of phone tag I finnaly got a hold of her and she explained that she was already going out with someone.

At first I thought "Oh well, there other fish in the sea" and things were going great for two weeks. We still talked to each other about the same. Things were just about back to normal.

Well a few nights ago the same ton of bricks hit me again and now I can't get her out of my head. I keep telling myself that is impossible, but my heart isnt listening. I haven't even been getting upset about it, the last few days have not been bad days at all. No matter what I do the feelings keep growing stronger.

Any suggestions on what to do?

[jane]

I would lose all contact with her first of all.. She's got a man.. she said so.. it doesnt soundlike she can give you that chance right now. I wouldnt get your hopes up about it either.

I know thats easier said then done... you just have to let her go. There are no easy answers for this ... sorry.

The best thing to do is keep busy and forget her.

[sfalexi]

Yeah. Break contact so all she is, is a 'memory'. Then her memory can fade, and you can start noticing OTHER girls.

And lose her phone number. Delete it from your phone, do whatever you can. You don't want it there to haunt you and tempt you.

Alexi

[Ratfish256]

I have tried those things but I guess part of the problem is that she told me that she always thought I was the cutest. I did ask her if she would have gone out with me if she wasnt seeing someone and she said "of course". That will be the last time I ask that question haha. Now I know that could have been letting me down gently, but it sure as hell didn't help. I guess I will just have to ride this one out, thanks.

[IceQueen]

You're never going to get over her if you keep talking to her. Stop that.

[K3vMySt3r]

dude...u're making yourself suffer if u keep that up...think about it...lets say u have a gf and u know this chick lykes u but u really have no such attraction for her... so u lyke to play games and make her suffer by saying..oh yeah u're really cute, or u do things that make her think about u...stuff lyke that...what makes u think she really meant that?