So I was out with some friends...

[PandaCivic]

...the other night. We were all bored so we decided to go out and eat. We went to this downtown restaurant. Just 4 guys bullshitting and doing nothing on a Thursday. We got there and suddenly I felt awkward. Maybe because it was just us guys and no girls with us. So anyways, I guess for some reason I felt the need to "flirt" with the waitresses, or any girl i saw that night. Not really flirt but more like be friendly. The waitress that served us was pretty nice. We were talking to her the whole night. But then my friends were looking at this one waitress. She was very nice looking. Being that I was still in a different state of mind, (different girl in my mind that is) I just looked . So i thought to myself, what the heck, i'll just go up to her and introduce myself. So i got up and walked to her and asked her name. The closer I got to her, the weirder i felt. not really sure if that makes sense but she was "my type". I got her name and all. She had a nice smile too. I was talking to her for a bit. And then i went back to my table. After I got back i got to realizing that i didn't get her number!!!! kinda saddened with the fact that i didn't get any contact information from her. but i went up to her just to meet her. does that make me stupid? oh well. but my friends were wondering what we were talking about. and i just told them that i just said hi and introduced myself. they told me i was with her for quite a while. i didn't realize that at the time. but after this incident, i realized my theory was correct. i can go up to anyone if i don't have any intentions or expectations from the girl i go up to. anyways that is all.

[Pretender]

I think you got some cahunas if you are able to just go up to any girl and start a conversation. If you ever get in that situation again just write on your hand, " dont forget to ask for her number" and when you look down you'll be all set

[PandaCivic]

haha! i was so nervous inside. i was somewhat forcing myself to walk up to her. i was getting closer to her and i almost turned to head for the bathroom. luckily i didn't and i met a really nice person. i just can't seem to find myself asking for her number because it might seem like i'm hitting on her. i am but i'm really not.