So there's this girl...

[Unregistered]

Hi all, first post here. First off I'm a 15M from Australia.
Alright here's the story.

There's this girl that goes to my school, and ever since about 2years ago, I started to like, and now I am completely infatuated with her. I sometimes talk with her online, and about midway through last year she gave me her number. I consider us to be friends, but I love her so much, yet I'm not sure how to tell her how I feel. I'm not exactly the most handsome chap, and she is like one of the best looking girls at my school (In my opinion).

NB: Please not that I do not have very much confidence, and this chick is the first chick I haev ever felt this way towards, and that I have never had a gf before, or ever asked a chick out. Thanks for your help in advance.

[IceQueen]

For the 100th time.

You don't need to tell her how you *feel* (as a matter of fact it's better that you don't bring it up until you're dating). You just ASK. HER. OUT. Just do it. There's a first time for everything.

Why is that so hard to come up with on your own?

[Ironliftr3]

Reading this kind of stuff always brings back fond memories. Back in my high school days, I became very attracted to a chick in one of my classes. She had a boyfriend at the time, but we quickly became 'school friends', meaning I never saw her outside of school, but we talked all the time. She broke up with her boyfriend, and by this time I was totally into her, but had already crossed the dreaded "friendship" line. We became closer and closer, and during the summer hung out together 4-5 nights a week, usually in my small group of close friends. I'd tell her about other chicks, she'd tell me about other guys. But, by this time I was TOTALLY infatuated with her, but was afraid to risk taking it to another level for fear of losing what we DID have, which was a truly wonderful friendship.

About two months into a very close friendship, we somehow got into some physical 'playfulness', just laughing and having fun, and I finally figured WTF and kissed her. Turns out, she had been for months, infatuated with ME, too, but since I never showed any romantic interested in her, figured I wasn't interested. Anyway, we dated for almost two years, and she became one of my first 'loves'. Or course love sucks, so it all eventually crashed and burned...but it was great while it lasted.

The moral of the story...take a chance once in a while, and don't assume somebody's not interested in you, they may be waiting for YOU to make the first move.