What can I do/should I do?

[DonMKim]

What you need to know:

We're not going out yet been a week and a half since we met, trying to secure our relationship.

She opened up on me first and then the same day I admitted feeling attracted to her too.

She gets shy really easily, when we first started talking she couldn't look me in the eye and her face would get really red she says she has low self-esteem and I have low self-esteem too.

I get jealous and insecure easily and start to worry if she still likes me or if shes looking at someone else which leads to constantly texting and calling her.

She lives in the town next to mines 10 min away different school...can't see each other much because of her strict parents but we still see each other in Taekwondo sessions 2-3 times a week, and we sometimes find time in between.

Okay so, when we first met she would be really nice to me and she always wanted to be with me on the phone on the messenger or texting and she would always ask me if I like her or what not calling me cute (which I don't think). Until a week ago I started liking her ALOT, which made me insecure so I would text her and call her asking constantly why she likes me, why shes all over me when she can find better guys and why she calls me cute because to me I'm ugly, as we met a few times more in the karate sessions she slowly started to stop calling me cute and she didn't talk to me on the phone or whatever as much as she used to. (I am not sure) but now it seems she is kinda avoiding me, like when I ask her do you wanna meet she says stuff like, "I can't today my head hurts..." or "I don't know my parents being weird.." and stuff like that, In the beginning I believed it was true until she kept putting me down. We used to also text message like crazy she would text me constantly and stuff telling how she likes me alot and how I'm cute but now she just says stuff like, "I missed you too.." or simple "Thanks :]" "Me too" "I guess" "Not now" it feels like we went from a bond to a lose string. So I asked her if she likes me she says, "Of course I do :]" and I would then ask why do you sound like your avoiding and she would, "I'm not avoiding you...trust me." and I would finally say, "Ok cutie I like you..I'm always here for you." and she would reply, "Thanks" opposed to what she used to say such as, "I love you, I'm here for you too and your VERY cute too!" so..I feel kinda rejected sort of.

I will see her again tomorrow at Taekwondo give me some advices and I also want to ask why she is being so distant, almost as if shes pushing me away?

[Cain]

Well, first of all, seeing the words "i love you" in your message after you've known her less than two weeks is silly.

Secondly, you scared her away with your insecurities. No woman finds that attractive. Women want confidence in their man, and you constantly seeking her approval is turning her away.

You aren't even dating. Stop calling her all the time. You're smothering her.

[Darkest Heaven]

The girl is pulling away from you because you are an insecure wreck. Your option would be to grow balls and trust a woman, no matter how hard it may be.

Know where the above came from and how I know this stuff? I do the exact same thing as you are doing.

Good luck.