PLEASE HELP:: Wrong Signals???

[MzConfused]

Hey Everyone,

Basically, i've known this boy for a year and a half, but he's three years older than me. When we first met, we dealt a little bit but he felt really awkward because i'm younger than him. Eventually we decided to just be friends.

However, it was only a couple weeks ago i was talking to a friend about him, and my friend said that this boy likes me alot. When i thought about it, i think the signs are there but then something has changed my mind.

The other day he called me randomly just to talk to me about the day we spent together (kissing only lol) n he said that he missed me...

The other night we went out, and he spent an hour (while we waited for the train) hugging me, then he said i would be the perfect girlfriend, then it's other little things, like he was with a girl one night and i jokily said 2 him "get in there" lol and he felt the need 2 explain himself 2 me, he was like "u have 2 trust me cos i swear nothing happened"...he holdsz mah hand when we're in public & there was one night i had a performance coming up and he spent mosta the night up talking me through my lines and that

BUT i later found out that he's got a girl that he wants to be more than a friend with. Now i'm confused because he hasn't told me this, i read it in a text from him 2someone else...((blush))...i think he hasn't told me because he doesn't want to hurt me, but then what do the other signs mean? Am i looking too deeply?

Please help meeeeeeee!!!..xx

[Kromat]

Hey Everyone,

Basically, i've known this boy for a year and a half, but he's three years older than me. When we first met, we dealt a little bit but he felt really awkward because i'm younger than him. Eventually we decided to just be friends.

However, it was only a couple weeks ago i was talking to a friend about him, and my friend said that this boy likes me alot. When i thought about it, i think the signs are there but then something has changed my mind.

The other day he called me randomly just to talk to me about the day we spent together (kissing only lol) n he said that he missed me...

The other night we went out, and he spent an hour (while we waited for the train) hugging me, then he said i would be the perfect girlfriend, then it's other little things, like he was with a girl one night and i jokily said 2 him "get in there" lol and he felt the need 2 explain himself 2 me, he was like "u have 2 trust me cos i swear nothing happened"...he holdsz mah hand when we're in public & there was one night i had a performance coming up and he spent mosta the night up talking me through my lines and that

BUT i later found out that he's got a girl that he wants to be more than a friend with. Now i'm confused because he hasn't told me this, i read it in a text from him 2someone else...((blush))...i think he hasn't told me because he doesn't want to hurt me, but then what do the other signs mean? Am i looking too deeply?

Please help meeeeeeee!!!..xx

Why would 3 years bother him? what is his age? Girls tend to mature at a younger age than guys.
I think since he told you that he might have feelings for this other girl, that he is trying to get over you and wants you to know to move on.
I guess there were certain things that he liked about you, but it just didn't work out, so he's wishing you luck with someone else.

P.S. Go find someone else that your sure won't give you mixed signals, and you'll just waste time figuring this out.
If I was with a girl 3 years younger at my age, it wouldn't bother me at all, as long as there's a connection, we get along, and see this working out, that is all that matters.

[Mish]

Am i looking too deeply?

Please help meeeeeeee!!!..xx

Looks like he's shopping around to see who's a better match for him.

P.S. Please write in proper English, this is not an sms forum

[MzConfused]

he might be...i don't know...he knows that in the past i've been treated terribly and he knows i definately am quite mature considering

But all things have changed. i don't quite know what's causing such a drastic change but i know that it's not the same. it's like it's mood swings. one minute he loves me and treats me like an angel and the next he's distant.

my friends say that he does like me because he can't treat all his girls the way he treats me because he treats me like i'm special BUT maybe they're just saying this because they're my friends.