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Thread: Wrong, Or Right?

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    Wrong, Or Right?

    Is it wrong or right to go after a best friends girlfriend? I have these two friends and one of them has liked this girl he works with for about a year, and has been trying to get with her, and his best friend is now trying to get with her, and they have already done the "dirty deed" behind his back, and they are both lying to him saying nothing has happened...they werent going out or anything, but he knows how much his friend likes her....is it right or wrong to go after your best friends love interest? even if its an ex? or even if its going nowhere between them?
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    friends

    i think that friendship should always come before a new relationship no matter what, no quesitions asked, and if its your best friend then there should be no quesition... you know what they say "bros before hoes"
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    Oh thats a no go there! He betrayed the unwritten rules of friendship...what do you think is going to happen when he finds out? Its not like he got clearance to go for her ya know...even then he shouldnt have done that...oh man I would NEVER go out with my best friends x's theyre that for a reason...besides the fact theyre my friends...thats just WRONG!!!!

    There will be hell to pay-trust me-someone will get shit big shit for that one!!!!
    everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.

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    Just like in FRIENDS (they tackled that issue. Saw that episode about four times)

    There are unwritten rules. A code between friends. You don't go after

    A) an ex-anything
    B) a close relative (parent, sibling)
    C) cousins are iffy, ask first

    That's about it.

    Alexi

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    It's a sign of true male superiority.

    And assholeness.

    Take the good with the bad I guess.

    Wait for it to end imo.

    Your call in the end.

    God I love one liners.

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    Quote Originally Posted by numerouno View Post
    Is it wrong or right to go after a best friends girlfriend?
    Holy shit, de ja vu... This reminds me of the topic i made.
    I had the same problem, then they broke up cause of me. She got attracted to me, luckily my best friend said he didnt care. I kept asking him if it was okay over and over, every time he said it was no problem..
    Then like 2 months after, i started dating her. It went on for like 3 months..
    Id say, if my friendship was lost. It wouldnt have been worth it.
    But my friendship is still intact. Though he doesnt talk to me as much... Probably cause of work and stuff.. lol.
    Anyway.
    See what your friend thinks.. He will most probably say: Its okay. Yet he will think the opposite and it will probably ruin your friendship.. Unless your lucky like me !
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