advice plz

[trishamarie2]

i met a guy saturday at a club. we hung out most of the night and he was really sweet and seemed into me. we exchanged numbers etc. his friend told me he is really shy and when he walked me to my car he told me if i dont hear from him in 3 days to call him. i KNOW it hasnt been 3 days and i KNOW i'm being impatient but thats just how i am. i sent him a text this morning just saying hey hun what you up to...havent heard anything back. what are the odds that he is actually going to call?

[Mish]

havent heard anything back. what are the odds that he is actually going to call?

Somewhere between 1:1 and 1:1000000000

Don't be impatient. Just wait.

[trishamarie2]

Somewhere between 1:1 and 1:1000000000

Don't be impatient. Just wait.

i'm trying. its really hard. i'm an extremely impatient person. but thank you

[Mish]

i'm trying. its really hard. i'm an extremely impatient person. but thank you

You're welcome

You might be putting too much expectation onto this. That's not good because it may create pressure if you get to talk to him next time. It will be a lot better for you to get your mind off of him and do something else in this spare time. It will make his call a lot sweeter when it does happen.

[trishamarie2]

You're welcome

You might be putting too much expectation onto this. That's not good because it may create pressure if you get to talk to him next time. It will be a lot better for you to get your mind off of him and do something else in this spare time. It will make his call a lot sweeter when it does happen.

if it happens. past experiences has made me pretty pessimistic and i am at that age where i want to settle down and just cant seem to find the right guy. i get my hopes up..then get hurt

[Mish]

if it happens. past experiences has made me pretty pessimistic and i am at that age where i want to settle down and just cant seem to find the right guy. i get my hopes up..then get hurt

What age are you?

If this is something that happens so consistently to you have you thought about that there might be something wrong with your current approach? I can't speak about you because I don't know you, but I have known clingy people in the past and they had problems finding partners because they expected too much too soon. Leveling their expectations and broadening their horizons seemed to have helped them in their search.

[trishamarie2]

What age are you?

If this is something that happens so consistently to you have you thought about that there might be something wrong with your current approach? I can't speak about you because I don't know you, but I have known clingy people in the past and they had problems finding partners because they expected too much too soon. Leveling their expectations and broadening their horizons seemed to have helped them in their search.

i'm 25. and believe me i'm trying to change my clingy ways