i am not sure wether she is dating me or not

[jusloseit]

see it is a long story i am friend with this gal from past 3 months she used to share every single thing with me and trusts me the most and hpoefully still does. we are in college all our friends used to think dat someday we will date each other because we have some special connection ,we both thought that it is just a gossip and forgot it .Slowly we realised dat it is something more than friendship, last week we were speaking and we came to a conclusion dat yes we are dating each other ,no one asked out formally it was just a mutual decison she started calling me her boyfriend and i felt she is my girlfriend ,then we started speaking for longer times kissing each other on phone and ol dat. Last night she told dat she is not sure wether i m her boyfriend or not she said she cannot disclose this reltionship to any of our friends. she says that we cannot give this relationship a tag and she liked my company as friend she loves me as a friend.We had to go for a date today but she cancelled it for a stupid reason. She is now making me feel jelous by saying dat her dance partner is very kewl and all dat crap. i am very confused i dont know wat to do ,,wether she is trying to find a very good reason to chuk me out of her life or what????????
pleeeeez help me

[starbuck]

Just ask her and tell her you need a straight-forward answer. What else can you do?

If she won't give you a straight-forward answer, I would assume that she isn't as interested in you as you are in her. And if it were me, I'd probably move on, as mutual interest is important to me.

[IndiReloaded]

Last night she told dat she is not sure wether i m her boyfriend or not she said she cannot disclose this reltionship to any of our friends. she says that we cannot give this relationship a tag and she liked my company as friend she loves me as a friend.We had to go for a date today but she cancelled it for a stupid reason.

She isn't 'sure' you are her BF. She used the 'loves you as a friend' line. She cancelled your date.

She considered you a 'hookup'. That's all. I'm sorry babe, this one is playing you. Break contact with her, find a new girl.