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    Confused

    Okay here's the story... I am 18 years old and am very shy, so havn't had much experience with guys. There's this guy I have known scince we were both toddlers (our parents are friends) but never really hung out with him much as we went to different Schools, so only really saw him at family bbq's ect.

    I am moving away to a different state very soon & latley this guy has wanted to spend time with me, before I go. Last night I went to his house to watch dvd's. While we were watching a movie he started massaging my hands & feet and then cuddled up to me & held my hand, after a while he kissed me on the hand, sat up & kissed me on the head. It seemed like he wanted to kiss me on the lips aswell (he kept looking at me like he wanted to lol) but I didnt make any moves, so he just kissed me on the head again and then layed back down.

    This is kind of awkward because we have known each other all our lives and I thought he wanted to hang out as friends (I even thought his sister would be there watching movies too, but she wasn't) does it sound like he likes me more then just a friend? If so, what should I do about it?

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    It sounds to me like he wants to be more than friends because otherwise he wouldn't have done that. Since you are moving away, he probably knows that it's his final chance to tell you his true feelings. Maybe he is shy like you and doesn't know any other way to express his feelings. My advice would be to talk to him about this, because if you don't, and you move away, you might regret not talking to him about it for the rest of your life. And that's a lot worse than what will happen if you talk to him about it. It would be worth knowing what his true feelings for you are, so you should ask. He might just be affectionate as a friend because he knows that he wont be able to see you anymore soon. But he might want to be more, and knowing by experience, you want to talk to him about it, or else you might be left wondering for the rest of your life "what if". To me, it seems like he really likes you, and doesn't know how to express his feelings in a different way. Maybe he just isn't good with words. But either way, talk to him about it. I wish you both the best of luck!

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    Hmmm... So do you think he's trying to get in? Do you know that boys and girls can't be friends? There's always a hidden motive behind it...lolol

    To answer your question, if you like that person, just go for it. Don't ask why he have done such thing...Why? The person will say lies(or maybe that's just me).
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