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Thread: Need to know what to do here

  1. #1
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    Need to know what to do here

    Here is the situation, last weekend I had a party over my house and my sister and I each had some of her friends over. Well she has one friend that I have had a crush on for quite awhile, but have never really talked to. Well she had to leave before I could get a chance to say anything to her. Long story short, I asked my sister to text her since I didn't get a chance to talk to her and it ended up she thought I was cute and told my sister that she could give me her number.

    So two days later, I texted her and said "Hey I don't know what my sister said to you the other night, but I was just wondering if you might want to hang out sometime?"

    She replied back with "well yea, but I don't really know you".

    I said "Well so and so (people she knew too) are having a party this weekend and I was wondering if you want to go?"

    She replied " I would but I'm gonna be out of town with my parents this weekend".

    I said "well maybe we can hang out some other time then"

    she didn't reply.

    Did I do something wrong there or does that seem ok?
    It's been 2 days should I text her again or just wait until the weekend after next when there is gonna be another party?

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    The ball is in her court now. You established interest, she knows this, now it's up to her to make the next move.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spring Haze View Post
    The ball is in her court now. You established interest, she knows this, now it's up to her to make the next move.
    Not really. Yes, he established interest but that doesn't mean she'll make the next move.

    I would wait until after the weekend has passed and just send her a text asking how her weekend was and keep it simple. Don't drag on a long conversation. On Tuesday or Wednesday you can send her another text in an attempt to make plans for Saturday.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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