By god... what do you have to say ?!

[alexandergarr]

hey loveforum,
Gonna make this short, i think this girl is GORGEOUS, she looks like a model. Now what would i have to say/act if i wanted her to be interested in me. Were both 17 we go to school together, but we don't talk to each other, i mean she has her friends and i got mine. I would be turn extremely shy if i were to go up to her and talk to her.

We've all talked behind people's backs, it just so happens that I've talked behind hers saying that shes annoying and stupid. I kinda said that to act ''cool'' in my group, but i never really meant any of it.

So yeah if i could get some advice, like how should i act/say, or should i slowly become friends with her group, because i think in love! lol or this ''love'' could just be me wanted to have sex...

Added information: she has flawless skin(no imperfections), shes italian, shes the kind of girl that says '' like OMG!'' a lot, very fashionable, smart, sexy.. more to say about her but like i said.. gonna keep this a short read

[NeoSeminole]

go up to her and say "hi."

[Indignant]

OMG you like totally don't deserve her!

[vashti]

I don't understand why you talked smack behind her back. That was stupid, and you must stop immediately. Why would she be interestedin someone who was doing that?

Otherwise, yeah - just say hi, and smile. Ask her what her plans are for college (you are a senior, aren't you?).

[Kromat]

High School, it was all about showing off to your friends, and what a joke some of the people were back then.

No need to act like someone else to impress them.

Are you sure calling someone annoying and stupid is cool ?
Your 17, but try to act more mature than most of the people, so your unique.

What qualities do you have, that would she would like, to want to get to know you?
She probably has lots of guys that want to ask her out, but unless you have the
guts to even consider talking to her, I wouldn't even bother.

P.S. Even, If we tell you some advice, doesn't mean that you'll succeed when your in that
particular situation, unless you feel confident and not worry about the outcomes.

Treat it as practice to approach other girls, as it takes time to become comfortable in
our own skin to just talk about topics that she would find interesting and not bore her
with what you talk about when you're around your friends.

[alovehangoverr]

This isn't shallow at all.

Just go up to her and say "hi," and see where it gets you.. there's no magic saying that's going to get her interested in you-- she either will be, or she won't be.

My guess? She won't be. If she heard about you talking smack and you give off the vibe that you're shallow and just want to have sex with her.. I'm sure she'll be fairly turned off.