What should I do ?

[yoonminu91]

I've been in a relationship with this girl for about a month and now I am not sure if I really "like" her. Before we got together I really didn't know her that well, she was just a girl I had class with and maybe talked to every once in a while. She out of the blue asked me to prom and I accepted, then things kind of just moved on from there.

I've never had a serious relationship and that's the direction she wants to move in. When she isn't around I just think, do i really like her ? When I am around her I have no problem talking, flirting, and all that, I enjoy it. I just feel the relationship moved kind of fast for me. I find her great to be around, looks pretty cute, and all that good stuff it is just that I'm not too sure if I am completely romantically attracted or if I just got sucked in by the novelty factor.

It is still really early in our relationship, we are both graduating tomorrow and I definitely don't want to bring up relationship talk in the midst of all the festivities.

My personality is a people pleaser, I hate to make someone sad but I understand in the long run if it has to be done it must be done. I've said that I want to try and make it work to her but I don't know if it will. Like I said I've only known her personally for barely a month so I seriously don't think it is wise I should commit. What to do ?

[Rollerderby]

Just have fun and hang out with her if you like her. You don't have to make it "serious" and all that. She might be showing a neediness and probably likes you more than you like her. If you have fun hang til you're not having fun anymore and then go your own way.