What do you think?

[tim2963]

I posted this in the Ask a Female section on accident, my bad.

I just moved to a new city and thought I'd try this whole online dating thing out since school doesn't start up for another month. So far it's been sketchy, I've been on a few dates and they have all turned out pretty weird. Anyways I got a message from one girl on there who was my age and not only was she attractive she seemed like she had a something actually going on upstairs. She messaged me on a Sat night and ended up giving me her screen name. We didn't talk on the messenger until Tues. The talk went very well on Tues and she left it with I'll talk to you later. I would message her every other day just saying what's up, or how are you, with no response. I don't want to come off as a creepy person or a needy person. So on Sunday I asked her if she still wanted to talk some more and she said she didn't get my other messages, we talked for a little bit and she invited me to come out to a club the next sat and "look for her". That's pretty much where it ended.

Now why is there such a long period of time in between convos, she has recently gone on dates with other guys from this site in short notice. I'm not sure if she is uninterested and being nice, or trying to play hard to get.

I don't want to message her anymore, I feel I've made most of the effort up to this point and that she should make the next move.
What do you think?

[Doc Durian]

Pretty difficult to lose or not receive an instant message much less multiples.

From the sound of your physical and mental description of her, she's playing the field and doesn't mind lying to you or others about it, because she's got loads of options.

Maybe they're little "white lies" to her, but it's pretty indicative of her character and worse things to come should you and her get into a fuller fledged relationship.

I'd drop her, go silent suddenly, and not tell her why.

[tim2963]

I think you're right. However, she has no obligation towards me, so I can't be mad about her playing the field, after all that's what online dating is for, seeing what's out there. I just wanted to see where you guys or girls thought this chicks head was at. Thanks, any other opinions?