Dumped after engaged

[Jigga]

Ok so me and my Ex went out for about six months, I asked her to marry me on our anniversary, now four days later she wants to break up, she says she loves me but she cannot be with me. And she thinks she's pregnant, she has also stated I've been the best man she's ever had but she feels that she doesn't deserve love or me. I love this women so much and I just cannot stand to think of wasting another minute without her. I want her to realize that whatever it is she is going through she doesn't have to go through it alone and she deserves the love I am trying to share with her. I've cried myself to sleep the last two nights and I feel as though I am slipping into depression. Can anyone help me shed some light on this and help me get her back

[RonHH]

Hi, First of all have you told her what you told us ?
And when she says "she feels that she doesn't deserve love or me" did you ask her why she felt that way? Or do you think it's her lame way of saying she doesn't want anyone at this time? Some women really feel they don't deserve love, it's your job to find out why. And if you find out, then work on that problem and the other problems will go away.
It's no easy task.
Good luck
~Ron~

[Petit Papillon]

I still think You scared her off a bit with this engagement after 6 months... Dunno how intesive Your relationship was,but after 6 months You must be still in 'honey moon' phase and sometimes to propose to somebody at this stage might be too much. I think engagement is a very big step and especially after 6 months You can't be sure how You gonna feel after the normality comes...
Maybe she just feels that she can't commit to You so soon. She might have said yes when You proposed to her ,just because she was surprised but after she started to doubt if she really want to spend the rest of her life with You?
Well but I dunno it always depends...

[Jigga]

Our relationship has been very intense from the begining. Alot of passion and emotion, also I should I've mentioned the wedding won't be for three years when she finishes college. She still calls me every day like nothing ever happened

[Gigabitch]

FYI, the word anniversary comes from the Latin word annum, which means year. You haven't been together a year, so you didn't have an anniversary.

Six months is WAY too soon to be thinking about getting married and while she's in college she should be using two forms of birth control so these pregnancy scares don't occur.

You sound like a couple of rookies.

[bluesummer]

I think the engagement thing was a huge mistake, it probably scared the shit out of her.

If you're not ready for marriage for three years, don't get engaged for another two. Engagements are for when you're ready to start planning an actual wedding.

I would go to her, tell her everything you're feeling and tell her maybe you guys should dial things back a bit (forget about the engagement thing for awhile). Tell her you'd be hapier just being with her. Maybe she'll relax then.

[girl68]

6 months? Way too soon to get engaged.

[vashti]

Engaged after 6 months? Jeezus, bring back the promise ring.

[girl68]

How old are you 2?

[davidtorres]

Ok so me and my Ex went out for about six months, I asked her to marry me on our anniversary, now four days later she wants to break up, she says she loves me but she cannot be with me. And she thinks she's pregnant, she has also stated I've been the best man she's ever had but she feels that she doesn't deserve love or me. I love this women so much and I just cannot stand to think of wasting another minute without her. I want her to realize that whatever it is she is going through she doesn't have to go through it alone and she deserves the love I am trying to share with her. I've cried myself to sleep the last two nights and I feel as though I am slipping into depression. Can anyone help me shed some light on this and help me get her back

1. too soon
2. B.S. if a girl love you then she will not leave you

she said shes pregnant? was that yours?

[Creativejeanius]

Yeah you need to chill dude. You do not know someone is after only six months. There is a lot that you do not know about this girl.

[LoveHurts09]

1. too soon
2. B.S. if a girl love you then she will not leave you

she said shes pregnant? was that yours?

finally some1 asks the question, very weird for a pregnant girl to actually want to be single, most women would do anything to not be single at that time as it will be much harder for them to find any1 after (short-term) and only makes things harder on them... i dont think this girl is faithfull

who cares about marriage being too early.. they can get divorced, it's not the end of the world