Help!!

[kaosreign]

Hi~!

I am new to this forum. I was wonder if I could get some advice !

I really like like this girl I know & go to uni with. We've gone out for a movie & she's come over my place for lunch/dinner. She's 21 & I'm 18 (but i look older than that). I get this feeling that she only wants to be friends with me, but I'm looking for something more.

To make things more complicated, we both have demanding jobs & other commitments. We both also work long hours too. And, I'm going to be going overseas for a few months soon too. What should I do?

It's also her birthday coming up in the next few weeks, should I get her something? - she's not having a party as far as I know. I was thinking of getting her a necklace. good idea?

any help / advice is would be extremely helpful !!

[RonHH]

Hi and welcome to the forum.
I think a necklace would be to personal at this time but flowes or a plant would be fine.
You want to show her your thinking of her but without pushing yourself on her.
Be good friends first, and let it grow from there.
Good luck !!
~Ron~