What to do

[chris_68_]

Well I dated this girl for about 5 months and we instantly fell in love and we started living together. Even when we broke up we both agreed thatit felt like we where together forever. Things were going good except for the last month. I quit my job and got real lazy and that caused us to argue more and I was taking her for granted, just by not listening to her and not showing her I cared about her school I was a real iddiot. She wasnt happy so she broke up with me. I moved back home. She is in the police acadamy so she goes to school all day then comes home and studys at night and then goes to bed so she doesnt have time for much. We have been broken up for about a month and a half and for the first month I was beggin her to take me back and justacting like a imature iddiot showing up ather house calling her all the time and she got fed up with it and said she didnt wanna talk to me or see me because she couldnt hadnle the stress of me and school. About 2 weeks ago I stopped calling her and decided it was time to move on with my life. That week we went to lunch and dinner and started talking almost everyday. I told her that I love her and miss her very much and want her back. While at dinner she said she wanted a new beggining with me and we needed to start off justbeing civil and then try to be friends and be able to hang out and not argue and fight. She told me she doesnt want a relationship while shes in school because of how busy she is. I asked her if she missed me and she said sometimes but I havent given her the chance to miss me enough to do anything about it. I recently stopped calling her and texting her and yesterday she asked me to lunch but I couldnt go because of work. I ask her if she thinks we will get back together and she says she doesnt know whatwill happen in the furutre because her main priority is school. So what should I think or do at this point I really love her and miss her like crazy and itrs really hard just not knowing whats going to happen

[cheeze_guy]

life is about uncertainty but also about how u handle that uncertainty if you can relax and go at her pace then everything will happen how she wants it to happen and if you had it your way you would be together so in the end its all about how long you are going to wait till she gets serious... and if she doesnt you will get fed up and find someone else (which im sure is not what you wanna hear) so really just go with yer heart and when you are fed up you will leave and hopefully wont look back

[chris_68_]

Yeah right now I dont wanna move on and I just dont know how much space is to much space or how I can know if shes starting to miss me or what its all confusing