Help!

[whunt18885]

Ok I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now however for the last 2 months she has been back home (She is from Hong Kong) to sort her Visa out for the coming academic year. She is completing her Masters in London and I am in Nottingham. There is a 6 year age gap between us (I am 28 and she is 22). There are no dependants or financial commitments etc.

Those are the facts.

Here is the problem, When she comes back to the UK in the next week or so she is basically around for a few days and then off to London to start her new Uni course and does not plan to come back to Nottingham even after the course is over. I can't move nor do I want to move because I have a job, mortgage and friends here in Nottingham.

I know that when she is in London we will hardly see each other due to work / uni comiitments and in reality I can honestly only expect to see her 1 or 2 times a month at the most and only for a day at a time.

I care for her a great deal but I just don't know wether to end it now but stay in touch before it gets complicated or to see how it goes in London. I know that when she is in London I am going to get very depressed and pi**ed off because I have just barely got through the last 10 weeks without seeing her.

My adult mature side of me says to end it now and get closure but then a small part of me says that I should see how it goes.

Thoughts?

[kitkitkitty]

how did you meet in the 1st place? my honest opinion is that if you stay together it'll cause a lot of unneeded problems and eventually heartache.