why is he being so diffifcult?!

[Kelly1]

hi,

i posted a while back, about this guy i had met, i texted him 3 times and never got an answer, and then my mate found out i wasn't his typ and what have ya.

on saturday we saw each other for the 1st time again since i had texted him. he wanted to sort things out, so he took me outside and i told him what people had told me and apparently haif of what was said was not true. ok, so i was totally honest to him, and told him that the reason i texted him was because i thought we got on really well, and i thought we could just get to know each other a bit (that i am secretly hoping to marry him would have been a bit much i think *g*) he said he never ever thought me and him would get on so well and the fact he didn't ever respond was just because his phone was broke and he hasn't had a phone card since summer. ok so this may be true, but then he said he would have never asked for my number as he ALREADY had it. so then i asked why he had it, and he said he didn't remember. everything he tried to explain, somehow backfired on him some way or another. then he said about the fact my mate said i wasn't his type, wasn't true and he said i was really pretty. he said he would phone through sometime, and his mate and him said i could go out with them on saturday. I don't even know what kind of advise i am trying to ask you for, i am just confused because he is the first guy in ages that i really like and would risk getting hurt for. we just get on so well it sort of scares me, i don't even talk to my best mate for that long without having an argument. and he even said that there is no other girl he has ever talked to, and he said the night we talked the whole night was really weird and he did think of me a lot afterwards, but he only saw it as friendship- which i must say i did too, until he told me about one time 2 years ago when i was i a club and he saw me and remembered what i was wearing. that was the point where i sort of thought it might one day be very nice to be with him. and on saturday, we weren't at this place together, but everytime some guy came up to me he was there at my side, and he even pushed his brother away when he spoke to me. i just don't get him.

[zas]

dont txt him, let him come to you. if he really likes you surely he will get in touch. i never send blokes the first txt, or reply very often and when i do its more special etc. looks like you need to just sort of ignore him for a while, see what he does. if he doesnt like you, then there's no loss because you didn't get too emotionally involved.

[King Zarathu]

i agree. if he likes you then he will go to you, try waiting for a while and see what happens.

[Tomek]

i agree


ps. oh yea, and he might be like that because he hasnt realized whats his missing

[King Zarathu]

that means he likes ur ass...