Hello - first post, hello all but I really need some help. I met this girl about two weeks ago, she's smart, pretty, funny, someone who is very likeminded to myself. I haven't dated in a while and the last potential girl I met kinda stalked me after she was going too fast. (2 weeks, 2 dates and she wants to move in together.)
Anyway I agreed to myself to take it slow with the next girl I met and then I met her - Let's call her Juno. Anyway, we exchange a couple of lengthy messages, one with her explaining why she couldn't reply to me, which was very sweet for her to do.
I appreciated that, then we moved on over to facebook and MSN. We talk regularly however, I have made my intentions clear. I would like a relationship, according to Juno at the start wanted something long term, in her words. "someone who wants to be with me!" With that, and the long-term I'm absolutely fine as I'm really looking for something long-term myself.
However she hasn't really let up what she wants to go with us, she mentioned two other guys but then apparently dropped them leaving a hint out that she had picked me and she wanted to get to know me more. Once again, that's okay.
Yet tonight while we were talking, she was starting to go on about feeling lonely, how everyone in her home had someone. Being the potential courtship for her, I queried if she saw something for us.
Her words exact.
"You know, I really can't say just yet what I want from you. I know you're really eager to know which is understandable, but I can't just rush into things as I've done that before, and it led to pretty discouraging consequences.
Anyway, I really don't mean to annoy you, say something wrong, or upset you. I'm just letting you in on my thoughts, seeing as you seem interested. I don't mean to be on such a downer. I would just really appreciate getting to know you, without any expectations. I don't want to let you down as I'm unsure what I want at the moment. Just don't expect anything from me, please. Don't want to let anyone down.
Don't be so worried about what I think of you, just get to know me."
This is hard; Once again, I appreciate the honesty and my expectations can be curbed for at time but the more we talk, the more she'll creep into my mind, which is already happening as made obvious by this post for help. Making this a difficult issue for me as I like her a great deal yet I'm not a expert on this whole Freudian esque dating psychology, which is why I'm here. So could someone please tell me if she's just sugar-coating a easy let down for me, does this have any hope for me at all?
I just fear that eventually, I'm going to fall for this girl big time.![]()



