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    Does she loves me-Confused

    Dear All

    I love my sweetie so much and also i told her so.
    This is our conversion which happened four days before.

    Me:I wanna ask you one thing,you should not mistake me..
    my sweetie:ya tell..
    Me:Y cant we marry?
    My sweetie:R u serious?
    Me:Ya
    My sweetie:k,but the problem is the society.
    (and she started speaking abt those things)
    Me:see we have good understandings and we trust each other.we are not living for society
    (she told something abt the society problems more)
    My sweetie: I didnt hide anything from you.I told about you to my mom more because she should feel that you are a good boy.
    (finally the topic was diverted to something)

    The above conversations happened when sat on my bike so i couldnt see her face also.

    after that we had normal behaviour and i didnt ask her anything abt this...
    It still going on....
    but whenver she speaks na she is telling me as 'friend'.

    I cannot understands anything...

    I didnt get proper reply from her..

    FYI,she also told me once that "I love You"..

    she shared with me her personal information which she didnt even share with anyone..

    She told "You made me to feel comfortable to share my personal information with you and also i trust you"

    Once when i said its all because of you ..for that she replied that "Our relationship is like Husband and Wife,Father and mother,Friend, so dont split this"..then why should she still hold up her reply...cant understand?

    I am totally confused now...
    I dont know whether she loves me or not..

    Please advice meee.....
    Last edited by smartguy; 26-06-11 at 02:30 AM.

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    Why in the name of what is good would you ask a girl about marriage over TEXT? FFS.

    You're not mature enough to be married.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Its not texting...this verbal conversation...this happened when we were travelling in bike...

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    My apologies: I'll re-phrase.
    Why in the name of what is good would you ask a girl to marry you when you were on a bike and couldn't have an honest face to face discussion and be unable to guage if she loved you or not?

    Just because a girl doesn't want to be married it doesn't mean she does not love you. Do her actions show you that she loves you? Does she still want to be your girlfriend? Did her arguements about society and marriage make sense?

    By that conversation you two had it is completely impossible for any of us here to tell you whether or not she loves you. We don't know you, we don't know what it is she meant by her rantings about society and we are not present to see if her actions show you that she loves you.

    It's on you to figure that out by having meaningful conversations (face to face) and by her actions that match her words of love. If you want to marry and she never does then it means you are incompatible in your relationship goals and you'll have to make a hard decision to either stay with her unmarried or go and find yourself a willing wife.

    Good luck.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    I am not able to ask this in front of her face...dont know why?

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    Perhaps You can't ask in front of her face because you are afraid to hear her answer? How long have you been her boyfriend?
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    6 Months....

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    please read the full story and revert me

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