Does He Still love Me

[HeartBroken24]

I know that this is a long story but please read it and give me good answers. I'm so sad. I met this guy on craigslist weeks ago. ( I'm a guy by the way so yeah I'm gay.) He came over my house and we talked and got to know each other. He was very nice and we hugged and kissed. I'm 19 and he's 34 so he's a bit old but doesn't look like it. lol. Ever since we have been talking on yahoo messenger about every day. He said he was on vacation from his job so he had to go back work because he was busy. (He's an accountant.) It was understandable for me so he talked to me about every three days or so. I thought that he really loved me. He said he would always be there for me, he said he wanted me to go to church with him and that he liked to go to church, he helped boost my self esteem and gave me motivation, and he said that when I finish college he wanted me to marry him and buy him a house.

Me and this guy had absolutely the best conversations and he said he would see me again. I was so happy. But recently he hasn't talked to me for 3 weeks and I did ask him for his number before and he said that he would text me it but he never did. He hasn't sent me any messages on yahoo messenger either. I don't know if he's busy, or cheating, or doesn't have any interest in me. But with all that he said I have such a hard time believing that. I am so sad. I have been losing my appetite over this. I just feel like lying in bed all day. Then I rush to check my email or yahoo messenger and still no reply. Right now he still hasn't called me or messaged me. The last time he said good night and said that he loved me was August 8 and now it's the 23 and still no reply from him. I was so mad that I told him in an email messaged that I was tired of his games. Still no reply. The hardest thing anyone can do is break up with you and give you no reason for it. Please tell me what you think is going on here. Thanks. I feel so dead inside.

[smackie9]

I'm so sorry for your loss and heartbreak. There is no way of knowing what he maybe doing in this situation. I usually give people this advice tho, at the beginning of a relationship we are infatuated with each other. This is called the honeymoon stage. There will be talk of marriage and the future, etc. This is only talk and should never be taken as a promise ever (especially when they throw a house into the promise....that would make me suspicions....too good to be true). This is a mistake made by many.

There is a possibility you were bamboozled. Men will do and say anything to get with you, sad but true.

If you really need to know what happened go find him and call him out on it. I don't think there will be any gratification from it so what you do and how you deal with it will be up to you.

Next time, stay away from Craigslist.....since its free, you don't know what you are going to get.