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    Does he like me?

    Hi. First off, I'm introverted and utterly, almost cripplingly, shy. No matter how many things I read about "If He Likes You", I am always looking for some way to disprove the signs he's giving me. I just want an actual answer from someone, like you, who is able to analyze situations like these. So, here's the deal. I just turned 18 and I applied for a job at a seasonal market. I've worked there for 5 years so far, every October aside from the last 2 years (I had moved for a bit). When I went to apply, I recognized him from a previous year and remembered that when we worked together, he used to hold my things in his pockets because I had none. Well, this year, he's a supervisor, and I'll say this now, he's only 20, not a ton older than me. lol But anyways, I applied, and I got the job, mainly because the other supervisor knew me and my abilities. So, I confronted the guy I like and said, "Hey! I remember you from when I worked here a couple years back. You used to hold my things for me in your pockets!" and he said "Really?" and laughed. I told him my name and everything and then, a week later at orientation, he immediately greeted me with my name when he saw me, even though I had forgotten his. x___x; I was surprised he remembered my name when there was some 50 other employees. Anyways, he always says hi to me when I get into work and when I'm actually working. He comes into my area often, 4 times the first day, 3 times the next day, and 6 times yesterday. Every time, he always says hey and smiles or compliments me on my work. And like I said, I'm terribly shy so of course I'll respond but I'll never take the initiative. Yesterday, I was on break and he seemed to be acting a bit more enthusiastic with the guy who was standing next to me. (Don't know if that means anything.) Also, later that day, when I was finished and waiting to leave, I looked over at him and saw him looking at me. I like him, obviously, so I added him on Facebook ONLY because we would have had 5 mutual friends and I didn't want to be blatantly obvious or seem like a stalker. He accepted it. The thing that makes me most weary, is that he's a Sagittarius, and I know that Sagittariuses are very friendly and it can be very easy to mistake a Sagittarius'
    friendliness for something more. Also, the make-up artist there is loads prettier and outgoing than I am..and all the guys like her...so it would make sense if he did too. Help please?

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    Zodiac signs?!

    Why not keep it simple... Does he like hanging around you? Isn't he hanging around you more and more? Would he probably like to see you a lot more? The answer to all of these are 'yes'. Tell him how you feel.

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    When dating always remember: No risk, no reward. That means you have to take a risk to get a reward. And stop assuming he just likes pretty girls. Maybe he likes smart girls, or creative artsy girls, or shy girls. Not all guys are the same.

    Ask a friend to find out if he likes you for more than a friend, if he might like to date you. Then get your friend to do the work for you, and find out how the guy feels about you.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

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