Indecisive actions have me thinking of going to the fence

[oldskool83]

Woman (will be 28 soon) I have been interested in for over a month now seems to be acting stupid now. (my opinion) There are however 3 other things going on and I'm on the fence about distancing myself. She is graduating college on on dec. 14th, same day of her birthday. The 3rd big thing to me is she hunts and wants deer before the season is up, well yee haw we all need hobbies!

I can see that might be a lot happening, also with the holidays here it can make things just bad period. However what has gotten me to the point of sitting on the fence was a conversation when I was asked about days I had off over thanksgiving. I am not in schoo,l I'm 28. I work 52.5hrs a week full time. She had said we should get together saturday night, when saturday came I had asked what are you doing tonight, said gonna do (this or that). Was told nothing and when I decided let her know. About an hour later I said I lets go out and do a bon fire later. From her response of "I dont know if ill leave the house tonight" and being wish washy not being able to decide I told her I'll be at the gym for 2 hour you can decide by then. I got ignored, which I saw it comming based off the dullness of the conversation. I went to did somthing completely different then with out her. (I dont need her, I just like her)

What I find dumb, really dumb is her posting on facebook "should I got to this bar, a bon fire or stay at home and watch a movie" I find that dumb to post your thoughts on facebook about going on a date with sum1, kidish honestly. I left it go, figured whatever she wants to talk to me she can text or call me, 3 days later she send me the "hope you have a good day text and a smily face"

We talked since but it's breif and my feelings are shes to all over the place right now (no sence of direction), this is the reason why hoping up on that fence has come into my mind.

Are my thoughts for how I see this going valid? I dont want to point blame but at the same time I read actions very loud and clear way more the anyones words anymore.

[smackie9]

You have different expections, so ditch her.

[bulrush]

Sounds like you prefer to make plans, while she prefers to do things at the last minute, so you see her as "wishy washy".

[oldskool83]

Sounds like you prefer to make plans, while she prefers to do things at the last minute, so you see her as "wishy washy".

is that bad on my part, when one works and is busy last min ideas never fly. Im just not going after her much anymore i think. I like to do things, not sit around waiting for people to make their minds up to do thing.

[smackie9]

I suspect you wish she was more into you, and not perfering to run off doing something else. Well maybe she isn't that into you. If it's not progressing the way you expect, then just keep looking till you meet someone that fulfills your expectations and doesn't play games, instead of complaining about girls that seem to be a dead end.

[oldskool83]

its only a month, if id never see her again it would'nt faze me lol, no loss no gain no problem!