Confused teen nephew

[thatguy99]

Hello, this is my first time writing to this website and I hope it will do well for my nephew and his heartthrob problems so here we go please comment and give advice for the poor lad if you can.

Hunter has a problem, he can't seem to understand girls, he will be nice to them and get friendszoned all the time or he will be rude (like the jocks who get the girls) an not get them. He has moved his whole life but has finally managed to find a nice city to stay with family in for his highschool life and prepare for ollege. Ever since his freshman year, he met this incredible girl named "Jennifer". They have been close friends ever since he first moved there. She is a soccer player, beautiful and blonde with maybe the most gorgeous smile you could think of. She has the best traits: she can sing, act, she's smart, funny, athletic, determined, and so much more. But there is a problem for poor hunter and this relationship: he has been branded into the friendzone label and hates everybit about it. Multiple times he attempted to show his feelings and does not know if it worked or not.
The problem for him at the moment is she has been talking to this jerk guy who she thinks is the "only one who understands and likes" her and they have talked for 9 months. Now there is a problem and she calls hunter crying about what she should do and how to fix their relationship.
He answered with the best answer he could think of and as soon as he hung up cried. He hates how he helps when he wants her so bad an doesn't know what to do.
I'm sure I'm not getting the whole story so if you would care to give advice or ask questions regarding this it would be greatly appreciated.

[ashley89]

let me guess, you are Hunter?

[smackie9]

You tried acting like a jerk and it didn't work? no surprise there because that isn't really how these guys act. They are confident, and show sexual desire. They don't pour attention all over the girl they are interested in or put them up on a pedestal, or treat them extra special or do everything for them....girls need to earn your attention or work for it. You need to be a challenge by being aloof, distant, but bold enough to tell them how hot they are without puppy love eyes. Look up the push and pull method on youtube for some insight.