Need Some Help

[Loveishard11]

Hi guys and girls, I am here to ask for some advice with my relationship as i don't know what to do or how i should feel. So i will basically give a little run down of everything. So I've been dating this girl for 9 months almost 10, and I know I love this girl with all my heart. I've been in a lot of relationships and this one I know is the best. So anyways, recently about 3-4 months back her friend (who is a really bad influence) had a crush on I believe personally not someone you should want to crush on. The guy has cheated on every girl he has dated, he is a very big drug addict, and has absolutely no respect. So naturally, my girlfriend has to become friends with her friends crushes that never work out. So now my girlfriend has become really good friends with this guy. I don't like it at all, I have a feeling this guy is going to try something. Also, a few months back she decided to call him cute (should i be pissed)? She told me that it meant nothing and that she didn't know what to say, but she constantly talks about how tall guys, and blue eyes, and tattoos are a turn on.. And guess what he has? To make matters worse, she got out of a relationship of a year in a half with a guy who controlled her, he didn't want her around anyone. And I got out of a relationship were all that happened was I got cheated on. So I don't want to tell her to stop hanging out with him even though that's how I feel. This guy also is in a relationship now, but his girlfriend and him are already cheating on each other, and then his girlfriend started some very immature crap with my girlfriend. This guy didn't even stick up for his technically friend. Now i have done the mature thing, and I told her how I feel and that I don't like him. She turned it into a big fight and tried telling me i'm controlling and that I don't trust her. Which isn't the case at all. But now that his girlfriend started with mine, she has started to dislike him. I spoke to her about it again and she told me she would stop hanging out with him and talking to him. But recently as I was helping her i spotted a text message of her saying that she wants to hang out with him, and that she doesn't want to lose him. I don't know what to think, I don't wanna tell her i saw the text message. I fear that she will think i am like her ex boyfriend. I'm trying not to sound jealous, but she even bought him Christmas presents that she knew he would like and bought me something that I told her multiple times months back I didn't want it. I feel she pays more attention to him, and then that maybe something is happening.

[Iceberg23]

Honestly.I would.leave her. I had a situation similar to yours and I told her to chill.out with her male.friends calling and texting or.I would leave
I left and she's been chasing me ever since
If she loves you she will follow you
If not she wasn't worth shit to begin with
Loyalty is the most important thing