Ex GF is confusing me and pissing me off really need advice

[SNH1993]

So, i've posted before about my and my ex gf problems going on. We were together for a year and a half and were close friends for a year before that. I had an on and off drug problem during the last 6 months of our relationship and it inevitably led to a couple o f minor break-ups that lasted only a week. This last month i went on naother drug binge and she broke up with me and hasn't gotten back together since. She would still come over almost every day, kiss, have sex, cuddle, et. but just2 days ago she came over and said i was acting weird and asssumed that i was on xanax again and got irritated and left. This really pissed me off because i had NEVER touched the drug since our last break up and felt like all of my hard work was for nothing if she was just going to randomly assume that 2 days ago anyway. We texted this morning and cleared things up a little bit but she said she doesn't think she is going to spend the night anymore because sexual things were bound to happen and she didn't want to complicate things more. She then told me she was annoyed at how i had been acting since the break up, when all i was trying to do was show her that i still cared and wanted to be with her. She said she still wants to hang out but just whatam i suppposed to do now? Apparently i am annoying her which was not my intention at all and i was just trying to be a good friend. We continued texting and she just told me to "act normal" when we talked. If Mr.Baron or anybody at all has any advice at all i would really appreciate it and it would mean a lot to me. I have been advised to go no contact but am not sure if that would just hurt my chances with getting back with her even more so i am really confused and don't know what to do now. Anybody please help me out.

[SNH1993]

scratch the Mr. baron part, this was copied and pasted from another sight since nobody seems to answer there

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Tell her not to call you at all unless she wants to get back together. Drop her and she'll be all over you.

[SNH1993]

that is the exact advice i've seen on other forums. but you see my fear is that, since I was the one with the drug problem and she broke up with ME it makes me fear it will just make it that much easier to move on for her. i really love this girl and please excuse me for sounding like such a damn wimp about this. i usually wouldn't be and it's not in my character to do so but my mind is all over the place right now.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

I'm not going to excuse you for sounding like a pussy. Follow the advice or continue dealing with the bs and stop bitching.

[SNH1993]

Alright, i respect that. now that i go through with this should i just let her know or just ignore her and not say a word?

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Ignore her for a while. If(when) she inquires as to why you're ignoring her or if you hate her or whatever, just tell her not to talk to you unless she wants to get back together. Tell her you are not interested in friendship at all. This is better than telling her first, because she gets to see that you're serious.

[SNH1993]

Lmao, she is always asking me if i hate her. that comment hit too close to home for me. You come across as harsh and to the point but i feel like that's what i needed to hear in my situation. and btw, i'm just curious how much experience have you had with the whole ignore her/drop her and being sure they will come back? that's not an insult, it's a serious question

[searock]

You shouldn't go no contact in hopes that she will come back. You should go no contact in order to move on effectively.

I think you should tell her: "I don't hate you, I just don't think we can stay friends. So, please do not contact me unless it's to get back together. Thank you for understanding."

Then ignore her unless she tells you she wants to get back together.

[SNH1993]

yeah, i guess i had the wrong mindset when i put the thought of going no contact in my head.