Boyfriend messing me around, treating me like rubbish.

[ConfusedGay18]

Right,

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, since then he invited me out once to go out for a drink with him and his friends, and I said no as I didn't feel comfortable. Since then, he hasn't invited me out since.

It's always me making the effort, texting first, making conversation, making the plans to do stuff etc. He never invites me out when he's going to his friends parties or anything.

There was trust issues at the start, but we overcome them. He even wanted a break, which we had and only lasted a few hours, he called me and sorted things out and we got back together.

Now, yesterday he was at his mates house drinking, and didn't invite me as usual, but asked me to buy him the wine, which I did as I felt bad as he has no money, still didn't get an invite after that.

Last week, we arranged that today (tuesday) I would go to his house, watch a film and just chill. He changed the plans this morning to us going out for a meal which I was fine with, only for him to then tell me after I agreed that he would have to leave a few hours after, 4 hours in fact.

He's going back round his friends house drinking, the same house as yesterday, and yet again I didn't get an invite. So, he has made plans on the day we have both arranged would be our day and no one else, and he still made plans to go out.

I've told him that I won't be going to the meal he arranged for us, as I don't want us to be on a time limit, and for him to just have going round his mates in his mind, so he would quickly finish the meal and want to rush home so he gets there in time.

It feels like he's just treating me like a fool, because I put up with it, because infact I love him so much, it feels like he's choosing his friends over me.

He always manages to make plans with his friends, but when I ask what does he want to do, he always says he doesn't know, or doesn't mind.

I don't know what to do, he doesn't have a drink problem either. I'm confused, and annoyed.

[michelle23]

messing you around, treating you like rubbish? Thats all I need to read. Dump him

[HeartIsAching]

Hey Imma. Howzit?

[Rowen]

Imma, you fail again.

You're not going to win this bet. lmao