What shall i do with my ex?

[j833s]

Hi there! I need some advice. Now this might be a little hard to follow but I will try my best. Around this time last year my girlfriend of two years dumped me. We met through friends while we were both at university (different ones i might add) and we were very much in love. It was all going well. We both graduated . She decided to do a masters degree. I decided that as i would have to move back home and find a job anyway and that we would be apart for a while that i would go take a few months out in Canada doing a working holiday visa and then once she graduated we would live together. I went off to Canada with full intentions to come back and start a life with her.But this is when we started to drift apart. I was completely unaware that anything was going wrong but her feelings towards me started to go away until she basically told me she didn't love me anymore. There was also the fact that i found it hard to see the upside of things which i have now improved on and that drove her to her decision. Now i was completely devastated by this and found it hard to cope. I did the completely wrong thing you should probably do after a relationship and flung myself into dating. After a few months i got together with an old co-worker and we started dating and found myself in another relationship. to start with i saw it as a summer fling and made sure she knew this as i was going back to England in the autumn. But it grew into more than a fling and we both made a decision to stay together when i came back. By this time i wasn't thinking about my ex at all.
This means i was in another long distance relationship. Now when i was back i had to arrange with my ex to get my tv that she had. She seemed very enthusiastic to see me and this is when the confusion started. I told my current girlfriend that i had to go get my tv and of course she was very jealous. So i arranged with my ex to leave my tv at my friends house so i wouldn't have to see her. I also told her i had a girlfriend as my current girlfriend was angry i was talking to her and that i hadn't told her i had a girlfriend. My ex seemed to back off after that. The arguments got worse and worse with my girlfriend and she was accusing me of wanting to see my ex even though i didn't talk to her after that. After many arguments (not just about my ex) i broke up with her last week. A couple of days later i had a look at my ex's facebook profile and i accidentally slipped on the add friend button. I immediately took it off and thought nothing of it. That night my ex rang me upset and said that she was very confused what i wanted from her. I explained i had just broken up with my girlfriend and i was just having a look at her profile and i apologised. She forgave me and then we proceeded to chat for a while which felt like old times and then i had to cut it short because i had to eat dinner. I messaged her saying it was really good talking and she said it really was. I have tried talking to her since but her responses have been limited. But it has been her birthday and graduation last weekend so she was very busy. I am not sure what to do. I do still have some feelings for her but i am not sure where to go from here.I am not sure if she has feelings for me again or if she is just worried what i think of her. Shall i add her on facebook and just talk to her and see how it goes? Shall i ask her to meet up straight away? Or shall i just leave it and move on with my life? Any advice will be great. And sorry for the speech.

[surfhb2]

Leave it and move on for now. I believe you should never get back with an ex....especially if they dump you. That's just me though. You're just a kid......date a lot and look for work and a career. Worry about the heavy relationship stuff for later

We all believe our college sweetheart will be the one....that's pretty normal. It was for me.

[Starnique]

She's your ex for a reason and it's obvious that she feels the same way. She doesn't seem interested in getting back with you so there is nothing you can or need to do besides move on with your life. Don't keep communicating with her or it will just keep causing you to be confused or caught up in your feelings.