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Thread: Do you think this girl might like me? (PLEASE HELP)

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    Do you think this girl might like me? (PLEASE HELP)

    Okay, so I met her at Summer School. She's a sophomore and I'm a freshman.

    We've talked alot since we met. I'm always the one starting the convo. She'll start them sometimes too, like at school and whatnot. Whenever she has a upsetting mood/attitude, I try and cheer her up and it occasionally works.

    One time while I was sitting next to these 2 girls at lunch, she came over to let me know that we both got the same lunch schedule for that day. She walked back to her table. 5 minutes later, I see she's all alone. I decide to go over and talk to her until lunch was over, It was a nice talk. I gave her a hug before I left, because in a previous fb conversation, I promised I'd give her a hug like the one I gave her on the last day of Summer School.

    Fast-forward to her birthday, which was a few days ago, I got her a panda hat with mittens and she absolutely loved it. She even posted a picture of it up on facebook saying "My good friend got me this hat for my birthday, isnt it cute". She doesn't really say things like bestie or stuff like that concerning her friends, so now that she considers me a good friend, that might help improve the chances that she might like me.

    We sit at lunch almost every thursday. We never really argue, and sometimes she even lets me into a few personal things and I try my best to cheer her up from some issues. We've been talking alot since then, and we both are pretty darn good friends right now. I just don't know if she might like me right now.

    Should I try pulling a move or something soon? I'm kind of growing feelings for her at the moment. Help? Please answer.

    Thank you, Johnny.

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    You should've tried pulling a move a looong time ago friend.

    "My good friend got me this hat for my birthday, isnt it cute" says it all. FRIEND.

    Ask her out on a date and find out if she is interested in something more than just friends. Do that and you'll get your answer but also be prepared to maybe lose this friend...?

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    Ask her out on a date. But you won't because you're a pussy. If you weren't a pussy you'd have already asked her out but here you are asking our advice.

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    No harm will come from asking her to be your G/F, however kids ask these days. It is not likely she will be interested or "not want to lose you as a friend". If that happens, you can still be friends if you want but don;t be seen hanging around her much. Women tend to pick up on guys who are friend material.

    With future girls you like, try to establish early on if she likes you that way or not.
    Do NOT let things fall into the friend zone if you want more.

    Being a friend with someone when you have intimate interest is a waste of time.

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    You definitely should pull the trigger before it becomes too late but like 3mk said, be ready if things go south. However, you can always (almost always) save that friendship if you truly still want to be friends with her. But I say you should go for it.

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    Yes, you should definitely let her know that you are romantically interested in her. You might ask her out on a date (using the word "date" so she knows you aren't just asking as a friend), or if you're too shy you might talk to her via chat or text... saying something like "I have to tell you something... I know this might come as a surprise, but I'm pretty sure I have a crush on you. I would love to take you out on a date. What do you think? :-)".

    How old are you? I'm assuming you are both pretty young (<20) right?

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    Don't pull a move, most girls get put off if you go in for a kiss and they weren't expecting it.
    Ask if she likes you as a friend or if she likes you more than a friend, and then if she says more than a friend admit you feel the same. Why is it easier for you to pull a move over just simply saying, I like you, do you like me?
    Keep it simple, dude.

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