Not Sure About This

[whitedragon20na]

Hey, I'm not sure where this goes, but I'm putting it here.

I am currently writing down every single detail I remember from the time I spend in Minnesota with my ex-fiancee. I was prompted to do so after watching the movie "The Forgotten"
I know it seems lame and I know I won't, but I just want to make sure I don't forget what we had. I decided to write it all down before I started to forget details.
I don't know what I'm going to do with it, but I feel like I need to do this. She was by far the best thing that's ever come into my life and I never want to forget her.

I just put this up for opinions, comments and if warranted, advice.

[shh!]

My advice to you is that you start a blog on some other website so you can chatter away to yourself as much as you choose, but I know you won't do that since you have not followed any advice we have given to you before, so I guess I will resign myself to making fun of you now and again. Forgive me, I just can't seem to help myself.
:-D

[Tone]

Good movie.

I don't think it's a bad idea what you're doing... unless you read it more than like, once a year.

[whitedragon20na]

I already did that, in fact I did so exactly a month ago today.

I doubt I'll read it more than that after the first few months.

[Ellynn]

I've seen that movie....... It was really good!

I used to write down stuff that happened w/ guys I dated and guys I liked when I was in high school.. I did it because I never wanted to forget how I felt and I guess wanted to hold on to the memories before I forgot...

I came across that notebook I wrote in like a year ago. (I've been out of high school for like 6 yrs now) I read what I wrote and even though they are some good memories..... They are memories that I now can let go of. I guess you can say I moved on. At the time I felt it was necessary to write down everything....but as time went on it really ended up not being as important as I once thought it was. (At least now I can have a few laughs looking back).
IF this is something you need for closure and need to help you to move on....then its probably a good thing to do. Just keep in mind that life does go on......there are alot of other people out there.....and sometimes you have to let go in order to find new happiness.

[Lonesomepoet76]

I started a blog a while ago. I started using it to write about me and my ex. Shes the reason i started the blog, to get out what i was feeling when she never listened which lately is all the time. I thought she was the best thing that ever happened to me and in a way it was, but...

Fast forward...

Shes a loser and a 1/2. She played me from minute one. I recently deleted the entries on her which felt good to do. It felt like i was deleting her in the process, awesome. There are some memories i know ill hold onto tho, like our trips to the beach but now i picture her bein carried off by the waves. Bon Voyage! Please forget to write lol.

In the end, i just got tired of thinking about her and writing about her. Afterall she became an ex for a reason, why dwell on it? I have my closure.