Feeling like my other half does no longer want me.

[Medusa]

We have been together for almost 8 months. We have dated in the past and took some time apart due to circumstances which I will not specify. She is loving and thoughtful always wants to make me happy. Tells me she loves me and that she couldn't be without me. I have spoken to friends about this and they chock it down to paranoia, which I partially agree with.

I've spoken to my significant other about feeling like she doesn't want me. She said I'm silly that she loves me and she isn't going to leave me like she did previously out of the blue.

Since she left me last year out of no where I've been feeling a bit vulnerable. She got scared of the relationship and me messing around on her which I had no intentions of doing.

I really do love this girl and I don't see myself loving anyone else in this way. What we have is special, its true and means the world to me.

Am I paranoid? Am I looking into things too deeply. Is my paranoia from the previous experience just weighing on me?

[michelle23]

The honeymoon period has ended. Its normal that your no longer constantly all over each other. Its just a new phase in the relationship and its normal to feel insecure or vulnerable during this time but try to relax. Enjoy it. If it doesnt work out-your not going to die, you will get over it like eeveryoe does.

This should be her last chance though. If she gets "scared" again and runs away but tries to come back again-you need to say no and tell her to f**k off. Dont let her play you or mess you around. Its all or nothing