When we met

[Rinve]

Hello, Nice to meet you. call me Rina. In a month from now, it will mark the day that I met my ex.I had dreams where we reconcile friendship at the day we met (November 12), but what should I do? should I contact him and see if he wants to be friends cuz I even got a new phone with a new number, but I was hoping to let him find a way to contact me somehow since I don't have his number or fb either (I removed him). He still have my friends in touch and I still have his best friend in touch, but I don't want to bother. My question is should I care about when we met? We were our first bf/gf to each other and maybe my dreams mean something. We weren't ready for a serious relationship and we even talked about this and blah blah so I forgive him and when I am ready I don't know if I want to get back together with him or with a new guy. We are both 21 by the way.

[basilandthyme]

Hi Rina, my advice is to leave the past behind. You sound like you're doing well without him, so leave things as they are.

As for dreams 'meaning something' - well yes, they can reflect something we're feeling. But they are not prophetic.

[Rinve]

Thank you very much. You're right, I'm actually trying to leave the past behind and I'm doing well without him too. I wish to stop dreaming this dream. And I love quotes! Thank you for the nice quote! Should I forgive him though and try to be friends?

[basilandthyme]

You forgive him in the sense that you let go of any resentment you hold for him. Don't let old concerns hold you back. But do your forgiving without contacting him. This is just between your heart and your brain.

No, don't be friends. Just keep focused on the future.