i want to ask out the girl i sit next to in class

[shadower4]

we talk everyday in class but it's only about school work, professors and other stuff about class... She is very friendly, i was thinking since valentines day is coming up i could be like so, are you doing anything fun for valentines day? and if she says no i could be like would you want to get coffee with me?

keep in mind we are both in college, and i don't have a car so by get coffee i mean get it on campus, any advice? think this is an okay way to approach it? just thinking about it makes me scared lol...

[Fuzzyfeeling]

I think thats just perfect , be casual about it, a coffee sounds great to me ^~^ ,good luck and lemme know how it goes with you.

[melancholia]

I agree, the example you gave of what you want to say to her is good. It's not aggressive, and if she likes you, she will say yes. It's nerve wracking to ask someone out for the first time, but try not to be too scared.

[TheEvilJester]

Agreed. I don't even think you need our advice, man. ;-) Sounds like you've got it under control. That is a great, very non-threatening way to ask her out. Heck, it even might help you get some insight before you ask. If she says "Yeah, my boyfriend and I are doing XYZ..." then obviously you know not to ask her out. If she's got no Valentine's plans, that doesn't necessarily mean she DOESN'T have a relationship, but it is a pretty good clue she PROBABLY doesn't, and a good segue into asking her out. Coffee, or something similar to that (I, personally, don't drink coffee, so I tend to go with ice cream as a suggestion instead) is a great idea for a first "date." It's a great way to get to know each other a little better before committing to an actual more serious date.

Good luck! I hope it goes well!

[pcmaster]

Man there more positive things than negative why you should approach girls, talk with them, and invite them to do stuff. Just for future some pretty girls who been living in big cities do get a lot of these coffee invitations. Its not very fun and more confident guys would ask them out for drinks or glass of wine at their place.

But for start coffee is good. Good way how to start interacting with the girls you like. Its important that you dont rejections to affect you and keep talking to girls to develop yourself socially with girls. Right now you lack confidence that comes from experience with girls. Have to start somewhere. What could help you is some fun inspiring SimplePickup videos on youtube. Especially their older videos like 3 years old where they go and talk with random stranger girls. They have even forum that is all about picking up girls. You could find more info there.

Good luck [MENTION=57363]shadower4[/MENTION] ! Take an action !