Hi everyone, this is my story!
There is this girl at work that I really like. She caught my eyes, from the first time she came to work. She is working in another sector of the company i work in. But I know everyone that she works with. When we first talked, it was in a break time, when we were all together with the colleagues from that sector. Her smile was stunning. From that point I started liking her a lot. I wanted to get to know her more. We were talking, when we had breaks, joking around etc. But at one time I learned she has a boyfriend. That was a some time at the end of last year. I thought about it a lot, and I came to a conclusion that I shouldn't try to "Steal her away" from her boyfriend.
One colleague of mine (The one who is in charge of her work) noticed that I like her, and he was the first one that I spoke with about it. He is a nice guy but he started to be pushy, saying I should tell her, and started teasing me when we were all together. Once he told her I like her, and told me to tell her too. Telling me "Tell her, otherwise she will not believe me" when she was there. And at that moment I didn't want to lie, that's why i told her "He is not joking". Totally a d*ck move on his side (trough I'm sure he didn't mean it). After that I thought things will get a lot more awkward, but that was not the case. Its like she chose to ignore that day.
Apparently when I wasn't there they have been talking about her boyfriend etc. And from what I have learned other colleagues she loved him, trough he is a lazy guy, that doesn't want to find a job and he is mostly drinking etc. That's of course only their opinion, I haven't spoken to her about her boyfriend. When she was away we were hanging, and a female colleague of hers quoted her "I'm too young and, that she was into older men". She is 25, I'm 24, and her boyfriend is 31 - 35 for what I know.
Now to the current events. Around 20th last month, that one colleague told me she broke up with her boyfriend (It's hard to understand when he is serious and when he is just teasing...). Some colleagues suggested that I should give her a flower, for 8th of march (Woman's day is a big day in our country). At first I was reluctant, but in the end I couldn't resist, and bought her a flower in a pot. When i gave it to her, she got really happy, she told me "I shouldn't have wasted my money!" (Not sure if that's the reason, or I'm just imagining things because I like her, but the next day she was sparkling with excitement, while most of the time she seems to be tired :/ ).
I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do, but I want to tell her how i really feel. I'm not sure if its too soon for me to talk to her, since she broke up recently. I got a feeling she will probably reject me either way, but I still want to talk to her. I don't want things to continue like this, not knowing what she thinks. In most situations I'm really shy and I don't really have any experience. But if I have decided on something, i can keep up with it and see it to the end.


Thank you everyone, who read the entire post. I would love to hear your honest opinion on my problem.