Okay, I can't go into to much detail so hopefully this long story will be short and it won't bore yous A-ha. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He's amazing, my first everything. Although since the first month he's been into debts, grands Worth's. His family always pays it off and want him to stop. He promises us he will stop and not get into debts. Let's just say he hasn't. Our first proper argument and break up was when he lied about a certain drug and we broke up and ofcourseI went back to him over several reasons. He then chilled out and then several months later another huge debt kicked off. This caused issues with his family. At the moment I had a feeling he was taking another drug and he promised me he wasn't. Only for me to find out that an hour after promising me he bought that drug, got arrested and is now questionable about loosing his license. The same day he was in a car crash because I was crying and he came to pick me up and on the way crashed into another vehicle. Recently he seemed to cut down a lot, he's lying to his family and making me lie to. Telling them he isn't touching anything. He hasn't got a job or anything. He doesn't talk or admire me the same but yet I can't leave because if I leave he goes so depressed that I have no choice to take him back because I love him and can't see him upset. My mum thinks the world of him and always takes his side. his family hate me because I hardly talk and the hole reason I don't talk is because I can not lie. If I don't lie, I loose him. I don't know what to do, he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever. But he lies , breaks promises and all he does is play video games and smokes. It's making me paranoid, controlling and depressed yet he makes me the happiest person alive as soon as I get a bit of his attention. What should I do? Sorry if this doesn't make sense X