Ok, The past couple days, maybe 3 to 4 days my girlfriend has seemed a bit distant. Getting off the phone for no reason, sometimes to do nothing. I wrote her this long poem, no reaction from it really. I talked to her and she says I'm doubting her. whatever i dont know. but shes going to some party for this kid that she graduated with that's moving away and some kid from her work (that likes her) is driving her because hes going too and he dosnt know how to get there but she dosn't want to drive because of gas prices and its 25 minutes each way (theyre both leaving from work) I dont get it because shes always telling me oh dont hang out with girls blah blah blah. I just feel weird about this tonight. Can someone either justify my feelings or tell me otherwise?
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07-10-05, 10:19 PM #1
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Did anything happen right before she became kind of distant?
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07-10-05, 10:50 PM #3
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no, we went to a wedding on saturday, her dads ex wife was getting married again. she said sunday or monday that she feels closer to me. which is why I was wondering why shes seeming distant. she did mention that I call her alot but then she said "i love it oh my god dont get me wrong" but apparently I doubt her because I'm worried about this party she's going to.
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Why werent you invited to the party?
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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because I live almost 2 hours away
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07-10-05, 11:13 PM #6
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OIC, good luck with that
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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07-10-05, 11:14 PM #7
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Okay... so what am I supposed to do here, this isn't about me not living near her... sorry im so short with people but I'm kind of pissed about this whole situation, probably moreso than needed.
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I don't know, if she's never done anything to lose your trust, I don't know why you wouldn't trust her now. How long have you two been together?
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Nearly 4 months. it's just the fact that this guy likes her, she has his number and everything but shes still going with him. thats what's baffling me
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So because this guy likes her, you think she shouldn't be around him? Does she like him?
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07-10-05, 11:23 PM #11
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as a friend she dosn't really talk about him a lot. her cousin said she dosn't like him either but idk it just seems weird
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Just because a guy likes her doesn't mean she's going to go off and do anything with him. I wouldn't worry about it.
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I guess that's true, oh well not like I can do anything to change her. As for the issue that she seems to be more distant, I'll just her call me all weekend. I won't call her.
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07-10-05, 11:32 PM #14
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You gotta trust your woman.
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07-10-05, 11:35 PM #15
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I do man it's just weird.
so I should just let her call me this weekend?
