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im in my mid twenties and have been dating my gf for bout a year so def no hook up...they say this is not too uncommon even in young men...and my problem is for sure psychological and she knows...

she knows about my therapist and has offered to come to sessions....

we've been together about a year, sexually active for bout 4 months....most of the time im having erection problems without the...

thanks for the response...i really do want to tell her...thing is i first took cialis a few months ago to see how it would work and it worked well...should i tell her that i have taken it from time...

wont she notice that im able to have erection when i usually cant and that will make her suspicious?!!?

thanks for the replies...she knows i have obsessive/anxiety issues. that is the main reason why i think im having these erection problems for sure. i have been reading books on the topic and again,...

hi...i have been having problems getting erections, went to doc a while ago, he gave me cialis but thought i had performance anxiety. cialis def helped and we had good sex. however, i never told my...

not sure anymore if i should talk to her....really dont want to lose her trust....she leaves her phone around me all the time with no concern so probably she has nothing to hide? im learning to let...

thanks for the reply devon. im finding it hard to resist the urge to ask, even had a dream about it last night.....definately dont want to lose her trust. why do you think asking would ruin her...

thanks for the feedback. how should i approach asking her without seeming too noisy/insecure, etc.? she openly leaves her phone around me when she leaves so i take that as a sign of trust.

should...

hi I overlooked a text that my gf got and it was from her ex that she dated 6 years back. Been dating gf a year. I only caught a glimpse as I didn't want to seem noisy (gf is prettyy open about...

thanks for the replies! so its not lying if i dont tell her? i feel like sometimes i should tell her... am i making a big deal out of something that isnt that important? i dont masturbate/watch porn...

hi, i been having problems maintaining erections. i went to a urologist and he said it was mental. he gave me cialis just in case. i have talked to my gf about erectile problems & she was supportive....

thanks carl, you are right, it is my insecurity and i will not bring it up. appreciate the advice.

didnt look like she was encouraging touching but she wasnt necessarily moving back. to be fair everyone was pretty drunk so i probably wouldnt think to back away myself. thanks for the input, much...

thanks for the response. she did not seem to be flirting back. it seemed like she was having a normal conversation (like she does with all people i have seen her interact). not sure what you mean...

hi, over the weekend, we went out for a friends birthday to a club. we all got pretty drunk and my gf ran into a guy she knew from one of her college classes. i went up and she introduced me. i spoke...

thanks for the replies...working on a positive attitude...doc gave me cialis to get over performance anxiety, havent taken it yet...if i do take it should i tell my gf? she might question my...

that makes me sad...i definitely dont want to lose her and have been working on enhancing erections (nutrition, exercise, etc.)...im going to try everything i can...just thinking about losing her...

hi, had another bout with erection problems last night...was fooling around with gf and just could not get it up...to be fair it was late at night and i was tired, and i told her that but she didnt...

thanks for the reply. she also loves me very much and she has actually said a few times that she thinks im too good for her...which i refute of course and show her a lot of love...i simply do not...

i really was not thinking of viewing her history, honestly. i do this at work, etc. as well so its a habit of checking history as i dont like leaving tracks...i think i love this girl so much that...

good question, some things like discussing erectile problems (my previous post) and asking if women would leave men over such difficulties doesn't seem like a topic a gf should see. don't get me...

haha absolutely nothing, again not that i was looking in the first place, stupid thing to fixate on eh?

hey guys, while over at my gfs place, sites like this one i like to browse in private (guess it wouldnt be the worst thing in the world if she found out though). today i forgot if i set to private...

thanks for the replies guys! i've been reading "the hardness factor" and am going to implement the advice offered and see if that helps. had a really nice erection during masturbating today but even...