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Make a lot of sense. Thanks a lot everyone.

Hi all,
Will very appreciate your thoughts on this one:

About 1.5 years ago, I was cheated on, treated like a piece of sh*t and dumped by a girl that swore to me that I was the best thing that...

Hi dear ladies,
You were all very helpful here, I think I may your advice here again....
My ex-cheating-gf keep calling me. First time she called (out of nowhere) about 1.5 months ago, after 7...

I was looking for closure 3 months...I was crying like a baby...You can find a lot of my posts here...Finally I have found my own closure without her "help"...
Now she is bothering me...I have no...

Hi all,
Today at 8am I really accidentally glanced on my phone and in this really moment I saw my phone receiving a call from my ex cheating girlfriend. Long story short - she cheated on me (how did...

Dear Ladies,
I will very thankful if you could help me to understand a women mind :)

So, about two months ago I meat a nice girl (she is ~30) at some party...Since then we were "in touch" once in...

Just to be clear - she mentioned her x in the context why she lives in the area she currently lives...she moved there cause of her x-bf....
But in any case, I know there is always a way to avoid...

Hi Ladies,
your opinion much appreciated...

So, I met very nice girl in a dance party last week, we exchanged numbers then and finally met for a lunch today...
Not a date or anything....just...

I thought if I will look "happy to see her", but in "a hurry" - it will show her that I am completely over her and she even not worth my time to chat with...
I even thought to say something like:...

Hi all,
About 3.5 months ago I was brutally dumped by my gf. In short - she went to vacation to her country as my gf (we were talking moving in together, kids, marriage, etc...) and after few weeks...

Am really happy, that it could help others...

You are right, but in my case there are no relationship...yet...
We just like each other and both not sure if really want to take it to "another level'...

Yes, I do consider myself as a "good guy"...But even "good guys" have right of choice, aren't they ?
I told her - that it is OK with me if she going to a date...and actually she didn't like this,...

:) we both look and feel younger - that's for sure :)
But seriously, at this age both of us would like 'to settle down'...
We both want stability ... therefore so hesitant not to 'waste' each...

me 33, she 35. Does it make a big difference ?

Frankly, first of all I am not sure if I want any "serious" relationship right now. Read my first few threads on this forum to get the idea why...
Not because I am not completely over my previous...

The last thing I want is to hurt her! This is the reason I am consulting with you here.
I was in this position and it's not nice indeed. Thank you all.

Yes, you all right. I have a feeling she does want me to commit to this relationship. But first of all I am not sure if I want it right now...
On the other hand, I still do not want to loose her as...

Thank you all.. some of the stuff I say here is only for the sake of discussion
and not really reflects me and my personality. We all good :)

Please explain me - why should I fully commit myself to one person at this stage if I really don't know if I really interested...
Moreover, nothing sexual happened between us...And I know for sure -...

Actually yesterday we finally talked about "us"...I asked her again if she would go for a date if she had a chance...She told me, that since she didn't see a real "interest" in her from my side
she...

Latest developments: today, during the day we have exchanged emails, in one of which she mentioned something like "I like pancakes for breakfast... :)"
So, it seems to me that she sees herself...

Yep, I will try to stick to this one...although it never goes as planned... :)
There is always a "right" way and a "smart" way - I think this solution is "smart" and fair...

I do agree with you - this is what I would like to do..My initial question was (and still is) - how to do it without lying (is it possible ?) and hurting the girl I am currently seeing...
Seems to...

First of all I am not holding anyone :) It's just we both single (available), have pretty much in common, attracting to each other - so we both asking ouselves "why not, why not give it a try?"
I do...