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"I wasn't trying to dictate how he looks. It was a suggestion though. And when he suggests things to me I do them for him."

If it was just a suggestion and he said no, then you would drop it. You...

Well, I've worked through getting dumped. Out there again. One thing I found is that as word spread about the demise of my last relationship, I was contacted by three different women in our circle...

You seem very immature. For one thing, what exactly were you expecting to happen when you repeatedly "broke up" with your husband? What, in your mind, was supposed to happen?

Married people...

There's a difference between soliciting his opinion of your style and trying to force a change on his style without being asked by him for your input.

The way you keep saying "I wouldn't MAKE him...

If the other woman was interested in an affair with you, you would know it by now. Likely, she is enjoying the attention you give her but has no plans on breaking up a marriage of 29 years.

I...

Well, she's lied to you about the marital status, which is pretty big. The mix-up of the phones I can beleive - and you found some texts that indicate she's not just sharing her affection with you. ...

Well, she came over yesterday - NYE - and told me that she's figured out that she never loved me. She doesn't know that she can love anyone that way, anymore.

So, the breakup was the best thing...

Lover14 - we're both in our early 50's. I would think that she would be past playing emotional games like you're describing. Even if she isn't, I'm past the age where I'll play that game. I don't...

gigigi - This is just the LATEST example. Last Friday was my birthday. We had plans to do dinner that night. On the Tuesday before, I told her I had a bit of a cold. Did she reply with any...

My girlfriend of four months was treating me poorly last night and this morning. I went to her place last night because she had arranged for us to go out with another couple for dinner - we did...