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Agreed. Don't over-analyze it, you just weren't a good match and there's no point in looking for 'fault'.

It's called a breakup because it's broken. Eventually you'll meet someone you're...

She'll come back to you only if she wants to. Nothing you can say or do will influence that. Your actions can only push her further away.

Do nothing, get on with your life and who knows what the...

Go girl!! You're bound to be sad and no doubt there was a small part of you hoping that the response would be him being horrified and declaring undying love, but even if it was, you know that it...

Thank you! It was complicated. Aren't they all!

Maybe just send the message if/when he next contacts you with something non work related then?

Believe me I know it's stressful - easy for me to...

Don't do it - simple as.

If you have lingering hopes that you can get her back, which you clearly do, contacting her will only set you back. If she doesn't reply you'll be wounded, if she does...

Agree 100%. Why on earth do you want her back when you clearly weren't even that happy with her in the first place?

Chasing after her and pleading will only push her further away from you, which...

Hi Jenna,

Looks more or less perfect to me! Dignified, to the point and firm. I assume that you'll send it by email rather than text?

You could possibly have the last bit as 'Please respect my...

Glad you're feeling better! I think just keep it simple and say what you've said above - that you care about him but that the relationship is clearly over (make it clear that you fully accept that)...

I think 'tends to go on benders' tells you all you need to know.

Move on and find someone worthy of you!

Hey Jenna - how you doing today?

Just initiate no contact and stick to it - tell her not to contact you again.

Yep, sorry - I know it's not what you want to hear but I think you know deep down it's the truth.

I know I keep banging on about the book but that's what's so good about it - it tells you what you...

Yes walk away. She wants out but also wants the 'comfort' of staying friends to help ease herself away from you.

Don't give her that comfort - if you're still hung up on her it'll only turn it...

Well said!!!

Sound advice!!!

It's natural to feel how you do but is this bloke really stable and someone who can offer you a happy future? It sounds like he wanted to get in very deep very quickly with all the living together...

Go girl!!!!

Great! Let me know how you get on with it.

I'm on my 3rd read-through!

He probably does miss you sometimes but that doesn't mean the relationship is worth having. If it was, why did it flounder in the first place? We don't think rationally when we're in the eye of the...

That's the way it goes I'm afraid - one minute you can feel like everything's getting better and then you'll have a bad hour/day/couple of days.

No contact outside of work related stuff is the...

Hi Jenna,

I've been through something similar recently and this book has really helped me - It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Breakup Buddy: Amazon.co.uk: Greg Behrendt,...