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Having experienced being cheated on and desperately wanting my ex back, NO CONTACT is really the way to go. Get rid of anything and everything that reminds you of him. If you have a facebook block...

My ex contacted me again. I Blocked her number so she did it through a friends phone. I was out with my friends last night and she started texting me telling me how much she missed me. It was...

If there's ever a time in the future that you find yourself senselessly hurt by someone you love, I want you to realize something. You deserve it.

I don't really understand what you're saying here.

I never went "psycho" about it. People asked and I told them. Hell her mom even asked and I told her. I never sought "revenge." I was relatively calm when telling people since everyone knows everyone...

nah that already happened. Everyone already knows and has for awhile. She somehow was trying to say I was over the phone. Which was ridiculous, and why I just hung up on her.

sooo interesting experience today. She called me up. I was kind of taken back but decided "ok, what the hell I'll answer." So I did, and what a trip. We were talking about issues in our past...

I am going out there and socializing, but I've noticed that I'm just not good at socializing anymore. My world has been turned upside down. I'm considering posting a topic about it in personal...

It might of affected you differently, but I did not take it well. I truly wish the pain I felt on no one.

I know what you're going through. I was cheated on as well. It's pretty tough mentally. Time. No contact and time is all you can do. It was really hard for me at first, I was extremely depressed but...

I do know she was very insecure. The more I analyze her in a "sober" non-manipulated mind, the more I realize how difficult life is for her at the moment and that she really didn't win anything in...

I would like to know the story behind this. What inspired this thread?

The problem I have with this kind of outlook is that she never told me she was unhappy. I thought she was just as happy as me. She never communicated. And that fact just makes me angry. What if she...

Thanks for all the replies. I've been doing a lot better after I posted this for some reason. This morning I felt happy and excited for no reason for the first time since I can remember. I used to...

how does one know when meeting someone that the person they just met is not just a rebound?

I guess I should clarify on my situation. I went to a dance club at my school and this girl asked me to...

what ****ing hog-wash

thank you for this.

Try to focus on the negative qualities about her. Also stick to NC. It really helps. Block her on facebook. Make it impossible to see her face. Delete her number so during moments of weakness you...

I just want to say I've enjoyed reading this entire thread. You're both wonderful people. You story inspires me.

I'm writing here because I'm currently in one of my "despair" episodes. They happen from time to time. I will be going along living my normal life and suddenly it pops into my mind. The fact that my...

That was the approach I took, look what happened to me. But then again I'm just that one "outlier" case probably.

If you don't want to lose her, don't cheat. If you cheat I hope she finds out and dumps your ass. Speaking from the side who got cheated on, NOTHING I have experienced compares to the pain I suffered...

sounds like my situation before i found out I was being cheated on. Really hope that's not the case here. DO NOT tell her there is something wrong with her. NO, that will not go over well.

my ex went on a lunch date with her ex. Started cheating on me a week later. Irony was it wasn't with her ex it was with someone who her ex introduced her to.....

so no, it's not appropriate.

This conversation greatly interests me. My ex was bipolar, cut med, and became manic. Cheated on me, yada, yada, yada. I have no input other then when she was manic she was someone I had never met...