Search:

In that case, don't tell him that last bit.Just avoid being drawn into a personal discussion with him.I think if you have a friend with you when you know you'll see him (if it is a friend he really...

Searock, if he was genuinely interested in getting better he would have sought psychotherapy himself-you wouldn't even have to keep suggesting it.

He is completely ignoring your advice and is...

It is important that you surround yourself with people right now as it is equally important to talk about how you feel.If you don't feel comfortable enough talking to your new acquaintances about...

It is absolutely normal to feel this way after you have been in such a long-term relationship, especially if there was emotional abuse involved.You learned to put your true needs and opinions in the...

Why are you feeling guilty? Break ups can cause a number of feelings and can leave us feeling very confused. You did your best to become more affectionate which shows consideration towards her...

Keep strong,girl. You are doing really well so far. Don't let him get to you.He is trying to manipulateyou into responding by saying he is worried. Was he worried about losing you or about the hurt...

I think he just got bored of waiting to sleep with you and just didn't have the @@s to tell you.

You were not and are not unimportant!In fact, you should be proud of yourself for sticking by your...

Has anything happened between the two of you that makes her feel insecure about your relationship and your feelings about her?Sometimes people can be really insecure and no matter how many times you...

I think he is just leading you on in case things don't work out with his gf or he might be hoping that sooner or later he could lure you into the whole phone/cyber sex thing.

You are his second...

I would suggest you just ignore his text.You can never know why he sent you that text-it could be for a number of reasons. It is very likely that if you answer he will just ignore you as an ex will...

I am sorry but after 3 whole years you either are in a relationship or you are not. If she truly wanted to be with you none of the reasons you mentioned would be a real issue. When someone is truly...

You may want her back but it doesn't sound like she wants the same thing.She is trying/has already moved on and you should do the same.You gave your relationship a few shots and it just didn't work...

When you are just 20 years old it is normal to become infatuated with someone and convince yourself to ignore all the red flags that are there.

When he was tutoring you for your University exams...

You have made it clear you are interested and she now knows that
Did you guys spend any time actually talking on the phone rather than texting? This is not a very good strategy as it can get you in...

No reason to explain that you don't want him to contact you unless he is serious about reconciling. You have already done that ad he is disrespecting you but continuing to contact you over trivial...

The reason why he was acting this way was not out of love but out of his need to control you.He saw you as his property and your role in his head was to sbe submissiveand behave in a way that was...

One of the most important things we need to do after each break up is take the time to figure out what mistakes we made during the relationship, learn from those but also try to see if there are any...

It is normal to feel this way after breaking up with someone you loved.That does not mean you should want to go back to him.

You are confusing love/attention with controlling/potentially dangerous...

He sounds like a horrible person. You say he treated you 'like a queen' but I think you have not had enough time and space from him to realise that this was not the case at all: when a guy tries to...

Love this!Excellent attitude!!:D

Smoking is an addiction. As with anyother addiction you can't stop until you feel ready to do so. When that time comes, you will know it. Stopping for any other reason than because you realise you...

I am sorry youa re hurting but you need to realise that this man is not good enough for you. It was not solely your fault that you broke up the first time round.Stop guilt-tripping yourself into that...

There is another very real possibility as well: you stay with her, she continues to pull the same s**t, you start detesting her and slowly but surely you may want nothing to do with her anymore. This...

I think if she genuinely regretted what she did to you and not just said those things because she got caught, she would have herself suggested ways of making you feel more comfortable again int he...

You did well going No Contact with her; it is the only way to see if she has real feelings for you,; if she does she will miss you and come back.

It does sound,however, like a case of 'it's not...